There are lots of posts on here about people talking about not being able to deal with how controlling their parents/DP's parents are, and so going it alone.
How hard to people who have made that choice find that?
I'm talking about (for example) child care, so help-in-kind (if it's regular).
But also actual money as well
The reason I'm asking is that my (widowed) mother is making choices which I can't get behind.
I've had a lot of help all my adult life. I've had help with all sorts of things.... school uniform, dentist (for me), spends for holidays. Really big proper help.
I'm thinking that because I can't support mum's choices, it would be wrong to take her money. But that's SO easy to write on the internet, and so hard when you've got a job you love which doesn't pay very well.
I suspect I'll get a lot of posters telling me how they've always done it one their own (and, big respect for that). I don't have a lot of earning power. It's not that I could just go and get another job which would earn me more.
anyway, I'm not asking this to talk about myself, but I'm interested in how many people actually have help which is part of their day-to-day lives, or things like help for DCs b.days or Christmas. And if you DON'T have that, and can survive but not thrive, what do you do for high-days-and-holidays?
I apologise if this is extremely naive!
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Embarrassing to ask.... Not very British.... But how much REGULAR financial help do you get from your parents/your partner's parents?
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KeepServingTheDrinks · 13/06/2017 00:21
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