To not want to be cummed on?

[YouAreMySweetestDownfall]

My dp does not do condoms and I'm not a fan of the pill. We use the withdrawal method and he, without fail cums somewhere on my body. This was the same with my Xh and most of the blokes I've been with in the past. What do they get out of it? Is it like pudding to mark your territory?

I've mentioned it to my dp and his chilled out self always says 'sure, next time' but then gets 'caught up in the moment, and it ends up somewhere on my body .

I'm not being unreasonable to resent being covered in someone's body fluids am I?

'I'm sorry that most of the men you've been with have thought it's ok to ejaculate on you without your consent, and I'm also sorry that you seem to also consider a refusal to use condoms as nothing out of the ordinary.

^ THIS.

I think you need to have a pretty clear chat with yourself about your boundaries and then have same chat with him once you've realised how very not okay this is.

I'll tell you what my GP told me many moons ago. The withdrawal 'method' is not a method.

There's a SEX topic. Post on there love.

It's a big deal for him to override your wishes in the bedroom though... Or is your thread meant to be light-hearted?

The Coil?

and Ewwww any man who did that to me after I asked him not to would not be coming anyway near me until he learnt some manners.

YY post this in the Sex Topic so that you can get all the opinions of the men that hang out over there. They will have lots of suggestions I bet.

If you don't like it it's fucking gross that he'd continue to do that. Not your problem where he puts it. If I was unhappy about a partner doing this and be wiping it off and smearing it on their body, see how he likes that.

I've posted there before yoda a year of so back. It was a bit too rich for me

Highalert

I don't think I'd fancy a spunk pudding

Sure you can't be tempted?

www.amazon.ca/Natural-Harvest-collection-semen-based-recipes/dp/1481227041

Get a bucket?

OMG. that book.

Whip out a bed pan at the crucial moment.

Bedpans? Books? Buckets?

Maybe I should have used the sex topic......

Get a dogs dish

He needs a cum rag or sock.

Pair of idiots.

Not your problem where he puts it

What an odd attitude to sex.

Forget the bedpans and buckets. Seriously you need to have an adult conversation about this where you tell him to stop doing it.

Is this a lighthearted thread OP?

Seriously, unless there is a medical reason you can't, get yourself some form of contraception. There's plenty to choose from.

Would rather my tummy than my sheets tbh! Tell him to get the snip, it's great!!

I've done that Brook he doesn't listen and finds it a turn on In The moment.

I'm not properly fucked off by this. It's lighthearted. We've been baby free since September so it's working.

He could have a vasectomy. Then he could ejaculate in you (if you're ok with that) and bonus no babies risk.

Maybe you get on top then jump off and he can cum on his own belly!!

My 11yo DS is the result of the withdrawal method.. Seriously if you don't want another child don't rely on it.