Womans aid isn't open who else can I ring? (Posting for traffic)

[Queenofthestress]

Womans aid isn't open on weekends, it's says Monday - Friday on the website, who else can I ring?
Posting on here for traffic & because some of you have read my previous threads

24-hour National Domestic Violence
Freephone Helpline

0808 2000 247

Hope you're ok

Call the number Donald posted, you'll get through to an actual person and they'll be able to help you

If you're in immediate danger call the police.

Shaken but ok, kids are okay, eldest isn't here and youngest was fast off upstairs, he started sobbing after wards apologising, I feel really unsure I guess, keep second guessing ringing because he didn't hit me but then I think of threads on here that say it doesn't have to be hitting to be abuse

He was screaming, shouting swearing calling me a dumb bitch getting right in my face and screaming at me

I hate how he gets to be the one sobbing. If he was really sorry he would take himself away. Use the number. You are responsible for your own and the kids safety and feelings, not his.

Please ring the number above

The next step is almost always physical Queen
By then, he's conditioned you so much you blame yourself/decide it's not that bad/it could've been worse.

Call the number for advice.

Take Care of yourself, if you don't think you're worth it, your children are.

BTW - YOU are worth it too.

Millions I'm already at the it'll get better stage but I just keep thinking of what I read on here that no its probably not going to get better,

I thought he was going to hit me this morning, I texted my friend when he stormed out to call the police but I didn't want him to know I'd asked my friend to call
I'm hiding in the bathroom whilst he's passed out upstairs

Haven't read your other threads but please do call the number Donald gave. Is there anyone (friend/family member) you can phone for personal support as well?

Call the number now. Do not second guess yourself just call the number you were given. This situation is not going to get better. The biggest step is getting the courage up to pick up the phone and dial the number. You and your children do not deserve this evil excuse of a man - you and your DCs are worth so much more. So pick up the phone darling and sending you a hug and prayer (if that is alright).

As soon as I'm out the house I'm going to ring, I don't want him hearing or he'll kick off majorly, he's woke up and acting like everything's fine, I keep re-reading the messages to keep my resolve strong

Your county council may have a domestic abuse helpline as well OP, you could google that for extra help if needed.

The number Donald posted is the one to call. It doesn't have to be this way.

Please get yourself and your dc to safety. Make the call!

Please please please ring. I was the child in that situation once upon a time and my Mum thought I was non the wiser. I was petrified. Later in life, I too had to escape a similar situation. It always escalates to violence, he will sob and say he is sorry but that doesn't mean it will get better. Protect yourself and your children

I'd call the police next time. In my area, their policy is to come round and take the man away to protect the woman. They also take video evidence on the little cameras they wear, so that they have evidence if a prosecution is brought at a later date.

In the final days of my abusive marriage, I called them because my ex was being very verbally aggressive. Even though he left while I was still on the phone, they came round (very quickly) anyway to make sure I was ok and record my "interview". They also flagged my address for 14 days, so that I'd get a rapid response if I had to call again.

I like to think that all forces in the country follow similar procedures.

Hope you're ok, Queen.

I'm ringing as soon as it's safe xx

Is he drunk? Call the police to ask if they will remove him and tell them you are frightened you are not safe. Would it be possible to get the locks changed quickly?

It's already been said.
Please keep strong and make the call. That's not a way to live.

I would ring the police or google to see if you have local refuge, they will have a different number to women's aid and may pick up faster. If you can't google give us your area and we can do it for you ?

If you need something practical to be done, then I agree with other posters that the police could be a good bet.

If you need someone to listen without judgement I have always found The Samaritans amazing, but they do not give advice and they do not do anything.

If it is not safe for you to call the police you could text a friend and ask them to do this on your behalf?

Nothing more to add but hope you're safe OP

He has been drinking, he's currently puking in the bathroom so he's not being aggressive right now, I'm in North East lincs, grimsby
I want to get out of this suitation, I don't want to be terrified every time he's drinking, I don't want my kids to not be safe, I never thought I'd be in this suitation again