To feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

[NooNooMummy]

AIBU to feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

I watched her video and, as someone who is also on the receiving end of an narcisstic ex's anger and bad behaviour, I thought she seemed really truthful. And I think she's really brave for standing up to his nonsense and attempting to set the record straight. Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I just wanted to say to Vicky that i believe you, your behaviour is not anything to be ashamed of, I understand, you are brave and it will get better. Be thankful that you didn't marry or have children with him and that you now have a chance for a better, happier life xx

I don't know who she is so googled and all I can see is articles about how she was apparently signed up as an escort? Is that it and it's all lies?

Do you have a link?

What's that weird noise I can hear? Oh- it's the sound of a barrel being well and truly scraped.

Have I missed something? Why is Abz from 5ive's ex-girlfriend of any interest to anyone other than Abz from 5ive's ex-girlfriend's Mum.

Agree with Saucy. I can't quite believe anyone thought this newsworthy or of any interest to anyone outside family.

Who cares?

How do you even know about this non-entity? What 'news' sources do you follow?

OK

So because Abz discovered his fiancee signed up too become an escort and he found out, She's now released a video of her boo hooing about it. So now Abz must be a narcissist who is abusive?
She claimed she signed up because they was low on funds because his money had ran out quickly. Get a normal job.

Henry - this was in the Mirror and the Mail online on Sunday.

I watched her videos too OP. I do feel for her but can't help but think she'd have been better off just keeping quiet and giving him no reaction, just a quiet denial statement.
The weeping videos will just add to the drama

Yes I see what you mean. I haven't watched her video but I read about them. I know women who have done what she was going to do as an option to earn.
Not an easy decision, I don't usually even I open a story like this but I could see where se was coming from.

I agree that it shouldn't even be news. But it is. And that poor woman is doing her best to claw back some control over how she's portrayed. I really feel for her. And, I find it interesting that a narcissus behaviour is being exposed in this way. It's not ok to do. That to her.

And my ad ice to her would be: don't sink to his level. Try to retain your dignity now and don't have a public slanging match. There ARE Ripken who believe you and. support you - know that.

Ripken? People

No one knows who she is. Posting videos about your z-list has been Ex seems a bit attention seeking.

What has he actually done wrong? He's found out his fiancée was offering sex for money so why is he being made out to be the bad guy?

Just watch the video

Jeez! Have I stumbled into the Five fan club? !!
I don't care about z list celebs either but I care about what narcisists do to their ex-partners and I think it should be discussed more. It's not acceptable.

I can't really be bothered watching a 20 minute video of a woman sniffling because she has been busted. I will revert to my original thought than she is the one in the wrong.

Why are you calling him a narcissist? What has he actually done wrong in your opinion?

I used to fancy Abz as a child.

To be honest, they both seem as bad as each other to me.

You're clearly lucky enough never to have been subjected to the mayhem caused when you try to leave a narcissist.

I just wanted to offer support.

Save your tears for other people

She had previously used the sites according to the reports before him. You are taking her has genuine but that does not mean everyone else will have the same opinion or even care to watch a video of someone they do no know who was with someone they vaguely remember. If she came on here she would be taken at face value and offered support, as long as she mentioned no names.

Does she know you're offering support here? I mean - do you think she reads this? I have no idea who she is.