To feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

[NooNooMummy]

AIBU to feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

I watched her video and, as someone who is also on the receiving end of an narcisstic ex's anger and bad behaviour, I thought she seemed really truthful.  And I think she's really brave for standing up to his nonsense and attempting to set the record straight. Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I just wanted to say to Vicky that i believe you, your behaviour is not anything to be ashamed of, I understand, you are brave and it will get better.  Be thankful that you didn't marry or have children with him and that you now have a chance for a better, happier life xx

[Sparklingbrook]

I doubt she is reading this.

[KungFuPandaWorksOut16]

Op

How are you coming up with the conclusion he is a narcissist? Because she's released a video crying? Two sides with every story.

His side- moved away to be with her, set up a life with her. Notices a change in her (going out more etc) Finds her profile from the sat nav.

Vicky’s profile name was Sugarpsy26 and she offered to “fulfil your wildest fantasies and desires” – at up to £390 an hour, £650 for two and £2,000 for a night in a hotel.

Yep, he shouldn't have gone public with it but he's hardly going to be singing her praises when he finds that profile with that description is he?

He confronts her and apparently says some vile and venomous things.

Her side - I was broke, needed money. Claims never to have actually gone through with it.Add a few tears, sorted.

She's also used the site before Abz.

[OnionKnight]

The word narcissist is used far too freely on this site.

He's a narcissist because he discovered that his partner was offering sex for money so he dumped her?

Right okay.

[SaucyJack]

I'm sorry you had a hard time with your ex, but it doesn't make this thread any less ridiculous- not least because her behaviour is the very definition of narcissism itself. No normal, sane people sell their personal lives to the press like this.

I bet a tenner she'll be pictured in Marbs next month looking chunky in a bikini due to the comfort eating from her "traumatic break-up with pop superstar Abz", and then it'll be a quick crash diet in time to get the exercise DVD out for Christmas.

All that's left after that is to get pregnant with whichever other Z-lister is doing the rounds at the time, sell the wedding and baby pics to Hello and her mortgage payments will be covered for the next ten years.

[BastardBloodAndSand]

Narcissist ??

Oh fuck off. I've no.interest in 5 whatsoever but any man who finds out his partner is whoring herself about on the Internet has every right to be royally pissed off. She really doesn't have any, moral high ground.

And apparently he's now sofa surfing whilst she's living in the house he bought, yep, sounds like a.really, abusive twat

[PigletWasPoohsFriend]

OP do think that it is always the man's fault when relationships breakdown because you seem to be insinuating that it is all his fault when evidence doesn't show that at all.

[Sparklingbrook]

I don't think 5ive exist any more. They are down to 2ive or something, and I couldn't name them.
I am not sure even Hello! would be interested.

[Sparklingbrook]

I do apologise. A quick google shows it's 3ive. And Abz isn't one of the 3.

[MovingOnUpMovingOnOut]

Sooo, this support you're offering op. What is it exactly?

And why do you think she wants it?

[CaoNiMartacus]

Sugarpussy!!

How unlike the home life of our own dear queen.

[shinyredbus]

who is Abz and is that his real name? If so - its ridiculous. Is this even newsworthy?!

[Sparklingbrook]

Real name=Richard

[NooNooMummy]

For the record, she signed up to the apps AFTER they broke up. I don't doubt that she had bills to pay. She was, apparently, paying all the bills in their home. And he spins it like this because that's what narcissistic people do to hurt their ex.

I believe her. That's all

[PigletWasPoohsFriend]

For the record, she signed up to the apps AFTER they broke up. I don't doubt that she had bills to pay. She was, apparently, paying all the bills in their home. And he spins it like this because that's what narcissistic people do to hurt their ex.

Unless you are a psychologist you have no idea if he is a narcissist. You also have absolutely no idea what goes on in someone else's relationship.

[NooNooMummy]

This true. I believe her. It looks pretty obvious. That's all.

I really have stumbled into the five fan club...

[MaudGonneMad]

Vicky, is that you?

[MovingOnUpMovingOnOut]

How does critical evaluation = five fan club?

He's not even in 5ive anymore

[OnionKnight]

Are you drunk OP?

[SaucyJack]

"3ive"

Thrive? 'Twould be rather ironic at this stage of their career tho.

Maybe Richie Neville would have been a more lucrative choice for her in the long-term- although I believe he's still busy scraping the last few dregs of publicity from his relationship with Natasha Hamilton.

Dignity is priceless... for everything else- there's selling your story to the Sun for twenty quid and your bus fare home. Sad really.

[Nicknacky]

I did go see 5ive a couple of times. Was a great show!

If they had split up god did he find the apps in her phone?

[Whiskwarrior]

I'm most sad that they're now down to 3ive. 4ive was sad enough.

[Mulberry72]

Who?

[BastardBloodAndSand]

5 fan club ??

I had to google to see what and who the hell you were on about 😂😂😂