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To feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

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NooNooMummy · 24/05/2017 09:35

AIBU to feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

I watched her video and, as someone who is also on the receiving end of an narcisstic ex's anger and bad behaviour, I thought she seemed really truthful. And I think she's really brave for standing up to his nonsense and attempting to set the record straight. Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I just wanted to say to Vicky that i believe you, your behaviour is not anything to be ashamed of, I understand, you are brave and it will get better. Be thankful that you didn't marry or have children with him and that you now have a chance for a better, happier life xx

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JumpingJellybeanz · 24/05/2017 14:00

This thread is like a Mumsnet and Jezza love child.

BoysofMelody · 24/05/2017 14:01

I'm not Vicky, I'm not her PR, I'm not her mother, I'm not her friend. I'd never heard of her. Had to google her.

Can I suggest getting a hobby?

Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I remember from your previous posts that your ex-husband is a selfish immature twat, but does he have a proper clinical diagnosis of Narcissistic personality disorder? Or have you consulted Dr Google and then labelled him? Not everyone acting like a bell end has a personality disorder, sometimes they're just a bellend.

Esspee · 24/05/2017 14:02

So now we know that there are people on Mumsnet who are interested in trash like this. My worry is that they may be registered to vote. Shock

JumpingJellybeanz · 24/05/2017 14:03

Abz is autistic.

BarnsligRav · 24/05/2017 14:03

They were playing Slam Dunk Da Funk (for those of you HEATHENS who are unaware of 5ive's work, this was their first single) in Tesco this morning.

Just sayin...

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:03

Feast your eyes on this

Smeaton · 24/05/2017 14:05

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BarnsligRav · 24/05/2017 14:06

Let Loose! I had forgotten them.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 14:06

Who da fuq are Let Loose ShockGrin

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 14:07

Fuck I'm old

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:10

Nope, no idea about Let Loose.

Maudlinmaud · 24/05/2017 14:10

WTF Sparkling!!!!!
I hope the poor backing singers didn't get a credit, career suicide!

peaceloveandbiscuits · 24/05/2017 14:10

The way narcissism diagnoses are bandied about makes a mockery of the difficult process people go through to get genuine personality disorder diagnoses, and subsequently, the help they so desperately need.

Has Abz been formally diagnosed as suffering from narcissistic personality disorder?

He's certainly a bit of an arsehole, but that doesn't make him mentally ill, or vice versa.

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:11

They were playing Bananarama's Cruel Summer in Morrison's in November. Confused

peaceloveandbiscuits · 24/05/2017 14:13
LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 14:14

Ah now Bananarama are a different kettle of fish - any music in the 80s was fab

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 14:14

Ah just realised it was November. Oh well - always time for Bananarama

SaucyJack · 24/05/2017 14:15

Blue or 5ive?

I believe this photo settles that particular question beyond any reasonable doubt.

derxa · 24/05/2017 14:15

This is making me nostalgic for the bands who made rubbishy enjoyable music and no one was a 'role model'

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:18

Ah yes. Simon Webbe the least worst member of Blue. Grin Brilliant in Strictly.

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:19

You can't really go wrong with Bananarama. Grin I saw them on TV a few weeks ago and they all look great.

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 24/05/2017 14:20

But just because she says he threw a bottle at her chops doesn't mean it's true.

B*witched are a classic aswell!
Can't forget them.

Fun fact - one of the members of 5ive had a baby with a member of atomic kitten. Grin

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 14:20

Dont they! And not in a 'plastic surgery' kind of way

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:21

YY Richie Neville and Natasha thingy Atomic Kitten met on The Jump. She's engaged to someone else now.

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 14:23

Bananarama are touring again

www.bananarama.co.uk/

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