To feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

[NooNooMummy]

AIBU to feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

I watched her video and, as someone who is also on the receiving end of an narcisstic ex's anger and bad behaviour, I thought she seemed really truthful. And I think she's really brave for standing up to his nonsense and attempting to set the record straight. Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I just wanted to say to Vicky that i believe you, your behaviour is not anything to be ashamed of, I understand, you are brave and it will get better. Be thankful that you didn't marry or have children with him and that you now have a chance for a better, happier life xx

Maybe if you were 11 or something.

My family met them as they stayed on their land/learned about permaculture during the BBC doc filming.
Apparently a 'lovely couple'!

Vics mum ??

I'd put a fiver on it being sticky Vicky herself.......sticky love, no one cares.

Sorry but this thread has actually given me a laugh - I'm going to hell, aren't I

sparkling I'm trying to remember what age I was but I did go and see them when they did the reunion about 4 years ago

Aww bless you Nicky which one was your favourite?

I'd totally forgotten about 5ive, so I just googled them. They had mad, staring eyes, didn't they?

I watched their farmer programme and they both came across as very likeable. Hopeless 'farmers' though. It was amusing watching.

As for their break up and the details, I think they are best kept private. I don't think many people are interested.

A positive song which should keep her going

I couldn't resist watching one of the videos.

He walked into a room, called Sticky Vicky the op a 'lowdown, cheating whore' then left.

Fecking hell, I reacted worse than that when my OH drank to much on his birthday 😂😂😂😂 He's more of a gentle than I am that's for sure.

This thread stinks of desperate PR.

Thanks for the 90s? earworm Panda catchy

I couldn't give two fucks, why is this even newsworthy?

Bastard - she also claims he threw a bottle at her face and she had to call the police, so unless you know the facts don't be so bloody glib.

sparkling pffft how dare you ask such a ridiculous question!

It could only have been Jay.

Which one was the scrawny blond one?

Wow, 5ive are a blast from the past. I have no idea who the girlfriend is though.

I could never decide which band was the least worst. 5ive or Blue.
I thought Blue was your favourite band Sparkling

For the record:

I'm not Vicky, I'm not her PR, I'm not her mother, I'm not her friend. I'd never heard of her. Had to google her.

If you actually watch the video, you'll have more information. Yes, he threw a bottle at her and then his mother lied about it. My ex's mother is the same.

I didn't say it's true. I meant to say 'This is true' to the comment 'you don't know them'

Please note, this is a thread in AIBU?!

Okay YABU to even know about this, much less to care!

It's obviously touched a nerve and that is bringing you to the conclusion that one party is good and one is bad.

You said 'I believe you' - I'm another one who hates this phrase. I'm a rape survivor but it just makes me uncomfortable.

Please note, this is a thread in AIBU?!

Oh, OK then. YABU.

Obviously it's not U to dislike narcissists. But if you're asking "AIBU to dislike narcissists?", it rather smacks of those FB memes that ask you to click "like" if you hate cancer and love little puppies. Pointless.

Did you namechange Noonoo?

How do you know he threw a bottle at her and then his mother lied about it?

How do you know the truth of what happened unless you actually are one of these people?

Stop stirring the pot.

TBF 'All Rise' is a good tooon derxa.