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To feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

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NooNooMummy · 24/05/2017 09:35

AIBU to feel really sorry for Vicky Fallon (the ex fiancé of Abz from Five)?

I watched her video and, as someone who is also on the receiving end of an narcisstic ex's anger and bad behaviour, I thought she seemed really truthful. And I think she's really brave for standing up to his nonsense and attempting to set the record straight. Until you've been the subject of a narcissist's lies and tricks and smear campaigning, you could never imagine the nightmare that a narcissist can cause you.

I just wanted to say to Vicky that i believe you, your behaviour is not anything to be ashamed of, I understand, you are brave and it will get better. Be thankful that you didn't marry or have children with him and that you now have a chance for a better, happier life xx

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Boulshired · 24/05/2017 11:40

If they had a fan club they would not be 3ive.

TheWeeBabySeamus1 · 24/05/2017 11:43

I read about this the other day. I did feel bad for her. By the sounds of things they're in massive debt and she did this to try and stop them losing their home. I can understand him being pissed off, but to have so little respect for a woman who's spent the best part of 10 years with you that the first thing you do is sell your story to a newspaper (so made himself a few quid and got his face back in the papers) is low in my opinion. He could've just ended things and left them both with some dignity. Two wrongs and all that.

WizardOfToss · 24/05/2017 11:46

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Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 11:50

The farmer thing was hilarious. They basically bought designer wellies and Abz put on a flat cap and, hey presto, they were farmers!

I just loved the way he carried on talking in his ridiculous 'ya get me!' manner throughout, as if he was still doing the boyband thing. Me and DD still occasionally talk to each like that 'oh my days, Abz is a farmer now, ya get me, family?'.

QueenOfRubovia · 24/05/2017 12:00

I really have stumbled into the five fan club...

I think you'll find a lot of posters don't know who they are. Or who she is.

Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 12:08

I'm going to start the 3ive fan club. I'm getting t-shirts printed. I'll get 7. That should be enough, with spares.

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 · 24/05/2017 12:09

Op she has admitted too signing up before this one with Abz.

But if it makes you feel better, Abz is a very very bad boy and she is totally innocent. Definitely an abuser and narcissist.

Liiinoo · 24/05/2017 12:10

Al6hough I was a essentially a SAHM over the years when money was tight I did various p/t jobs. These included childminding, supermarket checkout, weekends in a call centre and various admin jobs in market research and education. Never once did it occur to me to register as a sex worker. My DH is not a narcissist but I think he would rapidly have become an Ex DH if I had done!

I think Abs will be making an appearance on another reality tv show soon if his funds are running low!

WannaBe · 24/05/2017 12:22

I wish to God that "I believe you" had never been coined as a phrase on MN. Because people trott it out now for all manner of bullshit.

The woman was essentially a prostitute and her partner found out, and clearly the pair of them are still so desperate to be famous that they find it impossible to keep their lives out of the gutter press.

I'm sure they'll be on im a pleb celeb in due course and they can make up in the jungle.

Whoever they are....

PortiaCastis · 24/05/2017 12:25

Who's she
Never heard of her

GabsAlot · 24/05/2017 12:26

h shouldnt hav gone to the papers with it but wtf is it his fault she signed up as a sex worker

i mean yes they wre eskint but so are alot of people

PigletWasPoohsFriend · 24/05/2017 12:34

This true. I believe her. It looks pretty obvious. That's all.

You have absolutely no idea if it is true or not.

Believe what you like. It doesn't make you right.

bloodymaria · 24/05/2017 13:01

What did he actually do though? And you're offering her your support for what? Being an escort? What's happening?

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 13:04

No idea who any of them are but you can't know their relationship dynamic unless you were there.

And why would you even care about some random woman when you don't know who is telling the truth? Are you her?

AGifts · 24/05/2017 13:07

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Below Is A Link For The True
Details On This 'News' Story.
www.youtube.com/channel/UCd1xvcKS26XqW5v15Zw2YIg
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AGifts · 24/05/2017 13:08

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The Full Story is in This Link
www.youtube.com/channel/UCd1xvcKS26XqW5v15Zw2YIg
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AGifts · 24/05/2017 13:09

Hi Abz ...

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 13:10

It's in 3 parts? Confused

AGifts · 24/05/2017 13:10

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No ... you have every detail wrong.
Below Is A Link For The Full
Details On This 'News' Story.
www.youtube.com/channel/UCd1xvcKS26XqW5v15Zw2YIg
.

Chloe84 · 24/05/2017 13:11

You are Vicky Fallon's mum and I claim my £5.

kali110 · 24/05/2017 13:11

Op she has admitted too signing up before this one with Abz
This, but don't let the truth stop you.
If i found out my partner was offering sex online i'd be dammed pissed about it too.
I feel sorry for him and now her family for the fallout.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 24/05/2017 13:12

I don't know whether to laugh or cry that someone is getting so emotionally involved in a situation they know nothing about Confused

I had to look up Five and I'm none the wiser --I like bands that actually have some level of musical talent but I get that's just me-/

Which one is going into Celeb BB or whatever I wonder?

Nicknacky · 24/05/2017 13:12

This thread is bizarre. Can Vicky's friends not just admit they are her friends instead of pretending not to be?

Sparklingbrook · 24/05/2017 13:13

I could never decide which band was the least worst. 5ive or Blue. Grin

Nicknacky · 24/05/2017 13:15

Please people! Stop slagging 5ive. They were fab AngryGrin

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