To think it's rude to asking how much it costs?

[Hauntedbytheghostofyou]

I've had cosmetic surgery and it's something very noticeable. I'm very open with it but I'm sick of the first question being - how much did it cost??

Aibu? It's none of anyone's business

A tail! You have a tail!!

Oh God. Let it be a tail.

If it's obvious you've had a procedure then what would you be happy for them to say OP? You can hardly expect them to say nothing. It's likely that anything will feel intrusive.

MaitlandGirl, now I also neeeed to know what dog breed you have!! Oh and how much it costs... pleeeeaase!!

Is it a unicorn dog??

A Dalmatian chihuahua?

I'm going with bum implants.
But I find it hysterical that you don't want to out yourself by saying what it is but people can pm you. You don't know who's sending the pm's. A work colleague for exapmle could recognise this and will pm out of curiosity to see if it's you. You've already outted yourself to anyone who knows you the minute you said only 100 have had this.
Quite a rediculous self centred post.
Anyway, back to the question. No I don't think it's rude. You haven't got to answer them that's up to you. I don't think it's rude to ask though. People are curious about this type of stuff. Plus I can see it being a standard question in the conversation.

They're probably just making conversation.

I had my laser eye surgery to correct my vision a year ago. Since having it done lots of people have asked me about it and many have asked how much it cost, even people who have no reason to have their vision corrected (so not asking for that reason.) But I don't see it as rude. they are just curious and making conversation. I am happy to tell them.

pollymere in the spirit of this thread, can I be nosy and ask how much your tooth implants were? And what their lifespan is likely to be. Thanks. (Feel free to tell me to MMOB - I won't be offended)

People are so blasé now that they probably asking about surgery in the same way they may ask you much your haircut or coat cost.

I'm sorry you've had such a tough ride here. I agree with previous posters - you need a stock response, particularly for people you don't know. Sometjing dismissive.

I quite want to know what you've had done now but not enough to actually be assertive and PM you, so I'll just leave you alone OP

I do however, thanks to this thread, find myself wanting elf ears and a unicorn horn (and a puppy but that's my usual state anyway). I'm very easily led, obviously

I am another that is desperate to know what it is. Liposuction on your face? Horns? Hair transplant?

How noticeable?

Chin implant?

You're very open about it but get annoyed at being asked the most obvious question about it?

Perhaps you should shut up about your boob job or whatever you got if you don't want to actually talk about it?

I get the same about my tattoos. I now carry around my tattooists business cards haha

She's not replying any more.

Maybe she got the hump?

Perhaps you should shut up about your boob job or whatever you got if you don't want to actually talk about it?

Well aren't you a little ray of sunshine.

I DONT talk about it. But if someone asks if I've had it changed then I'm not going to lie.

I definitely dont have any need for a boob job.

Is that a clue Mrmanc?

Maybe, I'm just gutted I'll never know what she had done

Maybe she got the hump?

Nope. But I don't really see the point in this thread much anymore, it's not really evolved into anything more than it was yesterday.

Cross post fs.

You are enjoying the attention though aren't you op? Bet you think you are superior because people are asking what you've had done because we can't see it through a fucking screen, no matter how obvious it is

Probably because it can't involve when it lacks the information that is apparently the basis of the thread.

Evolve rather.