To think this is fine

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Dh said to me today that i do to much housework and that i might need help.
This is my chore list
daily
Hoover twice
tidy up as we gi along
Wipe bathroom and floor
Wipe kitchen and floor
Go on my hands and knees at night to wipe up any marks of the carpetx3
clean door handles at night
every week
deep clean bathroom and kitchen
Dust everywhere
clean windows
wash sofa covers and custions ( bed sofa and chairs)
Also i do two laundry per day
my house is hardly spotless my ok enough
Aibu to think its ok?

You do too much housework. HTH.

You wash sofa covers once a day?

Of course it's too much.

If you think it's ok then it's ok

It looks pretty normal to me, although when typed in a list it can look like it's more than it is.

But ultimately, I'm not sure why you're asking as you seem fine with it?

Way too much. What impact does this have on you and those around you?

Have you all spotted the 'every week' in the list?

There's no gap, so it does look as though the list is every day, but just the first part is.

You hoover twice a day??

daily

Hoover twice
tidy up as we gi along
Wipe bathroom and floor
Wipe kitchen and floor
Go on my hands and knees at night to wipe up any marks of the carpetx3
clean door handles at night

every week

deep clean bathroom and kitchen
Dust everywhere
clean windows
wash sofa covers and custions ( bed sofa and chairs)
Also i do two laundry per day

God you must like housework when do spend time enjoying yourself or with the family?

Why on earth would you hoover twice a day? You also shouldn't need to do laundry twice a day. Unless you're all exceptionally grubby, sofa covers shouldn't need to be washed every week either.

That's hardly anything! Or at least normal.

You are doing too much. Does your husband mean that you need help with the housework, or counselling help to enable you to reassess your views? Is he offering to help himself?

Did he mean help as in getting a cleaner, or mental health type support?

Either way it's much more than I do.

Wow you do clean a lot...😱

Totally your choice but if you did want to cut down, I would downgrade handles to weekly, hoover once a day and wash the sofa covers a lot less. Maybe get a throw and wash that once a week. Your sofa will last a lot longer then.

Windows I think once a month would be a lot!!

I'm genuinely baffled as to why some people think that's a lot?

The hoovering twice per day is excessive (although perhaps they have hairy pets)

But other than that, it just looks normal?

Why do you clean door handles every night

That's a hell of a lot of cleaning!

Hoover once a week, ditto for bathrooms and other stuff.

And I don't think I've ever routinely cleaned door handles! Only when you can see the dirt.....

Why do you Hoover twice a day?
And clean doorhandles?

Oh yes, I'd wash the sofa covers less too.

But things like rubbing over a few door handles takes minutes.

I do honestly think it looks more because it's typed in a list.

Even the laundry. I mean it's not like the OP is taking it down to the river and beating it against stones. I'm assuming she pops it in the machine?

I'm not sure I've ever cleaned a door handle!

If you fancy a change of scenery, you can come and live here if you like OP!

I thought I was fairly fastidious about cleaning, but it seems I've been put to shame. How do you fit all that in?

I've lived here 3 years and never cleaned a door handle. #slob

OP - you sound lovely, when can you come round to mine?!

My home is hoovered twice a week and the kitchen sides, the loo and sink are wiped over (flash wipes) every day.

On a Saturday the house is hoovered, kitchen floor mopped, kitchen doors wiped, bathrooms cleaned, bedding changed and all sides dusted.

Sofa and cushion covered are washed once a month.

Windows, erm, yearly? Maybe?

Yeah, I think you do too much.

Loads more than I'd do, I don't even hoover once a day and don't think I've ever cleaned the door handles! But I have fairly low house keeping standards.