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To be utterly disgusted and depressed that women think its ok to make small penis gags?

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deffonamechange · 22/04/2017 18:16

Just been reading a thread further down where yes some scumbag bloke had been horrible to someone. Lots of outrage and tell him he has a small dick, tell him he has a micro penis basically mock the size of his genitals.

Can you imagine if a woman upset a bloke and all his mates said tell her she has awful labia, tell her her fanny is horrible, tell her she doesnt look normal down there
Its horrific!!

Do you know how many lovely men with smaller penises get inundated with this? Do you know how many teenage boys worry themselves to death because of comments like these?

Its depressing/sexist/cruel and plain nasty. You should be ashamed of yourselves!

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joanopie · 28/05/2017 12:03

Yes MN is full of double standards but does that mean we have to be as well? We can only account for our own thoughts and language, not other people's, so calling a man by the size of his penis is something people think is acceptable as an answer to a horrible comment aimed at them as women? Personally, I believe neither is acceptable and I would never call anyone a bad name (Okay- I admit - except when being cut up when driving!) If we want men to stop calling us bad names, then as women we have to rise above it and not retort in similar terms. Yes, this is Utopian, but answering back in those same, vulgar tones does not solve the problem, in fact it gives the original comment to the woman a credence it does not deserve. I am horrified at how vulgar many women are, and how vulgar they are on MN in writing!

LorLorr2 · 28/05/2017 12:08

I think it's an easy blow. When you are livid with someone and have lost self control you might want to hit 'em where it hurts and 'small penis' insults are an easy on unfortunately. It is horrible for men who might have a real issue with their genitals.

metspengler · 28/05/2017 12:12

People being reviled and mocked because of how and what they were born is exactly the same behaviour as racism or misogyny.

This is why I don't join in with the hilarity on this one. To me it just sounds like someone who thinks any ism is funny.

Tinysph · 03/12/2024 00:23

Small size 3 at best love it when being called out by gf/and her girlfriends

JaneJeffer · 03/12/2024 00:40

I think it's an easy blow.
Well there is that

AngelontopoftheTree · 03/12/2024 01:02

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2017 again?

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