To kick dh out

[Mrsdropdeadfred]

Ok so dh went out last night at 11.30, said he was only going for a few pints and would be back soon so he could still help out with the kids in the morning (36 weeks pregnant and struggling to shift my fat arse at the moment)
To cut a long story short he's still not home. He was out two nights last week so it's not like he's desperate for freedom, he knows this sort of behaviour is a issue for me and it's something we've been arguing about recently. Apparently just because I'm pregnant, tired and insecure he should still be able to do what he wants (his words).
I also found out after some detective work on Facebook that the girl he added a few weeks ago who was 'just someone from work' turns out to be a girl he met at a nightclub.
Right now my head is up my arse, I'm sick of him promising he will change and everytime he goes out it turns into a massive bender. Right now I just want to start packing his shit up for when he eventually crawls back. He can never just have a few pints at the pub and I think what's worse is the lying about him not going out late and now who random girls are and I've just realised while typing this he's took my card and keys! So that's me and the kids stuck in the house
Sorry for the rambling I'm far too embarrassed to talk to anyone irl about this

Wishing you a smooth labour. Enjoy those smoothly new-born cuddles.

You're amazing OP, stay strong.

smoochy not smoothly cuddles.

Good luck

Good luck

Just want to say you're amazing OP. Good luck and stay strong, you're a total inspiration

All the best with your new baby, glad to hear that things are improving now you have a peaceful home again.

Remember that you do not have to let your H be at the birth- ideally, don't allow him to find out that you are in labour. It would be worth informing the health professionals that he is not to be allowed in to see you due to previous threatening behaviour . You'll probably feel exhausted and vulnerable in the early weeks - he's likely to try to worm his way back in then , so be prepared to get even stronger.

Youre fabulous op! Really hope everything goes smoothly for you today

Just seen this thread; good luck with the induction OP, you'll be brilliant. Far better than if you had that idiot ex hanging around to put you off your game.

Wow he stole your card and keys, I would be reporting him to the Police. He is an absolute wanker, get rid, you don't need someone in your life like this, he is awful op .

Awww just read your other posts, what a nasty, abusive prick, your well rid. Never ever take him back, your lives are so much better now he's not in it. He's a looser.

Hold on to the knowledge that people on here are thinging of you today, we're spread all over the country sending wonderful vibes and prayers your way, you are not alone xx

OP. I'm in awe as to how amazing you are. Good luck with the birth and the rest of your life. You are a wonder woman! 💐

What a thread! You trouper!!

Good luck with the birth

Sending you very best wishes and some peace in your lives. How you've coped I have no idea.

I wish you all the very best. ((Hug))

Agree with a pp, make sure to let the hospital know that your ex-H is not allowed any info, visits etc. They will assume he's allowed in unless you notify them.

Best wishes for a safe delivery from the maras family

Well done on everything so far, you truly are amazing.

Good luck with the induction