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neighbour just told me to fuck off!!

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CrazyCatzCuckoo · 09/04/2017 09:32

Can't believe what's just happened!
We have lived here 10 years and it's just myself and husband now that the kids have grown up and left home
We both work full time so only really in evenings and weekends
Nice family live next door, in their 30s with 2 children, twins aged about 5/6 I would guess ( they go to school as have seen them in uniforms )
Always been polite but as I said not in very much.
We obviously do hear the general noise that comes with having kids, in the garden ( they don't let them out until about 11 which we appreciate as the last people would have them out as soon as it was 8am! ) and crying, shouting and that kind of stuff every now and then but nothing over what I would expect in a family home!
Yesterday I was popping to the shop and as getting into my car I heard a piercing scream; like the little girl was in agony and the mum shouting something, then the boy crying - didn't hear anything from the dad. Assumed maybe the boy had hurt her or some game had gone too far, it was only 6.30 so wasn't bothered remotely by the noise just to add!
I went off to the shops and came back and all quiet.
This morning I saw her taking them out somewhere in the car as I was taking the bins out so said hello, hope everything's okay. She looked at me a bit blankly and then said " why; what do you mean? " I then said " oh I heard a bit of a thud and screaming last night " and she said " and what does that have to do with you? " I then said " I'm not moaning about the noise; I just hoped all was alright " and she replied " well why don't you just fuck off! "
Great - now we live so close together it will be so uncomfortable.
Husband says I shouldn't have said anything; it wasn't my business and shouldn't have made the comment to start with!

OP posts:
SeekingSugar · 09/04/2017 21:06

There you see, if you hadn't asked after them, you'd never have known how badly she was struggling or being able to help. Happy ending!

TonaldDrump · 09/04/2017 21:48

You sound like a lovely neighbour! It was a harmless comment, clearly
misinterpreted.

TonaldDrump · 09/04/2017 21:53

Oops rtft! But my assessment of your loveliness stands!!

Nocabbageinmyeye · 09/04/2017 22:02

What a lovely update!! Well done op!! You sound lovely and actually your neighbour sounds nice just under a lot of pressure, sometimes friendships come out of the most unlikely situations

Ohmuther · 10/04/2017 01:27

Yay.
Human kindness wins the day.
Hooray OP.

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