WWUD? Random puking teenager in our kitchen

[chastenedButStillSmiling]

We were out this eve, but not esp late (home by 10:30). DD has brought mates back. We know some not all.

They've been drinking booze I've provided (but was supposed to be more than one evening).

DD is 15, yr 10.

One of the kids chucked up. She's fine. She was here on a sleepover,m her parents aware. I know where she lives (20 mins away) but don't know her parents or how to contact them.

I've put her to bed, on her front. Sick bucket and water easily to hand.

What should I do?

...Did you guys not go to partie at 15/16 where there was booze?

Not provided by parents, no. But try RTFT.

Did you guys not go to parties at 15/16 where there was booze?

I did from about 14, I also went to parties where there were drugs, lied to my parents a lot, got raped and abused because of it and gave birth at 15.

There is a huge difference between a couple of bacardi breezers and the amount OP bought and even at the drug filled parties if a 15 year old got to the puking, needs to go to bed with a bucket stage we used to take them home, we may occasionally have sent the most sober with them and claimed we found them in that state rather than claim any responsibility, but we did take them home so their parents could look after them properly.

Parties at 15/16 where alcohol is consumed without the parents knowledge or consent is different to having parents supply it willingly or deliberately. Why does a 15yo need alcohol providing?

Little

Well to be honest no I didn't. We never had booze at other people's houses until much older. Sorry to disappoint. We didn't actually have parties in other people's houses when I was a teen either it just didn't happen apart from on new years eve.

I don't think I had alcohol in someone's parent's house until I was well over 18. From about 16, I drunk in pubs, nightclubs and the houses of those in late teens/early 20s who lived by themselves but I can't think of any occasion where a parent provided alcohol for a party of 15/16 year olds and I'm realised surprised that so many parents are apparently that stupid (if mumsnet is representative).

I can remember being bought a "hair of the dog" by friend's parents when I was 15 (after sneaking out to a nightclub the night before)

Holy shit I hope to God the kids parents know you provided alcohol for all of them. If that was my son I'd be beyond furious!!!!

Oh and btw I'd get her parents number off her pronto and ring them to take her home at once. If anything happens to her, alcohol poisoning or whatever it is you who will be responsible and then social services will be involved.

Mermaid
You are 5 days late with your advice