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To be insanely fucking angry at this reporting...

239 replies

WankingMonkey · 07/03/2017 19:00

www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/truth-female-sex-offenders/

Articles about record number of female criminals, lead with a picture of a transwoman. Rises in reported 'female' crime...ignoring that figures will be screwed from this day on given MALE crimes are logged as by females. And so on.

I am actually fucking raging about this and cannot vent anywhere except here as I would be deleted.

Surely noone actually thinks this is right?!

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dangermouseisace · 08/03/2017 14:54

…yes I can 'adult' thank you very much. Having witnessed and been subject to sexual assault in mixed areas of MH wards I think that classifying female only areas, in situations where one sex could use their physical characteristics to overpower another, as 'safe spaces' is actually very appropriate.

xStefx · 08/03/2017 14:55

What I can't accept is the idea that a man who "feels" like a woman really is, in essence, a woman, any more than I can accept that an anorexic really is fat. Because being a woman is, in the end, a banal matter of biology. I don't "feel" like a woman because I don't know how that feels. I am a woman through the fact of my biology

This I totally agree with hackmum

JapabSharted · 08/03/2017 14:58

Oh, and if anyone is genuinely interested in the actual science behind male/female brain theory, I am up for discussing plenty of papers to see how the evidence bears this out. On a new thread.

(it doesn't, of course, but I understand that some people want to look into this and see the evidence as I did.)

Or you could buy Cordelia Fine's excellent "Delusions of Gender" which comprehensively reviews every major study that has been reported as apparent evidence for hardwired brains. She demolishes them with facts and honest to goodness science. As opposed to the #AlternativeScience we are offered by the occasional GF that pops up on threads like this one.

DrudgeJedd · 08/03/2017 14:59

Imagine claiming to be a member of an order of knighthood then coming back an hour later with "can you even adult"
I'm cringing for you web

dangermouseisace · 08/03/2017 15:01

…as part of my postgrad we explored the evidence for male/female brains and came to the same conclusion japqab

dangermouseisace · 08/03/2017 15:02

I thought it was generally accepted knowledge these days that there is v v little difference…maybe someone's research is out of date?

VestalVirgin · 08/03/2017 15:02

I honestly don't even care about the brain theory. Even if there were such a thing as a female brain in a male body, it cannot be measured. Are the males who identifies their penises into women's changing rooms and prisons asked to give proof for their female brain? Actual brain-scan proof, not just "I like pink" nonsense that even if brain theory were true, everyone could just fake.

If my consciousness were transferred into the body of a man tomorrow, I would for certain not do stupid shit like demanding to put my male body into women's changing rooms. Because I know what it is like to be a woman.

Any male who demands access to women's spaces has, by this very demand, proven that he doesn't have a female brain.

webSocket · 08/03/2017 15:07

@MercyMyJewels I'm not sure why a different viewpoint to yours means I should fuck off. I change my username for similar reasons to many MN'ers. At the same time, I don't ever pretend to be a different person. Why should I fuck off whilst you stay?

@PoochSmooch I feel like your reply should be written in a word processor with spell checking and a re-read. I hope that's okay. It's fairly sad but telling that you assume I'm a "he".

Good. Now, why are you agreeing that Lisa is a man?

I haven't argued that they are a man or a woman. I've said that their inclusion in statistics makes no difference to the fight of women. It doesn't endanger us nor our hard-won rights. 0

If you are ok with penis bearing humans being allowed access to women's refuges, then good for you

When did I say that?

@hackmum - an interesting read.

What I can't accept is the idea that a man who "feels" like a woman really is, in essence, a woman, any more than I can accept that an anorexic really is fat.

Would you join in a thread telling an anorexic that they aren't fat or would you back off and hope they learn to live with their unique combination of mental and physical health. If you think that standing around saying "a thin person is 27.426% more likely to commit crime" is the appropriate response then you fit in here.

Even if you believe in innate differences, you must also know there's a huge overlap in abilities and characteristics

Yes. I worked in statistics covering hundreds of thousands of people. Analysis of an individual proves nothing.

What I can't accept is the idea that a man who "feels" like a woman really is, in essence, a woman

Why not?

What makes you a woman? A vagina or a way of thinking?

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 08/03/2017 15:07

YANBU

It's fucking ridiculous no doubt soon the MRA's will be using this information to prove women are just as violent towards men Hmm

I'm not sure what we can do but I'm not going to shut up and accept that a man is a women becuase he says so it's 2017 women (yes ones with real vaginas) no longer have to shit up and put up no matter how many men want us to

WankingMonkey · 08/03/2017 15:11

What makes you a woman?

Being an adult human female..is the usual definition. I have repeatedly asked those who disagree with this definition and think trans women are actually women to define 'woman' without referring to ridiculous stereotypes or anything but have not got an answer yet. Do you have one?

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DianaMemorialJam · 08/03/2017 15:11

When did I say that

You just said that people that refer to safe spaces aren't adults. So I took it that you don't agree with safe spaces.

Is it just me or is web coming across as a wee bit of a silly billy?

WankingMonkey · 08/03/2017 15:12

To add to my last post, circular reasoning is no good either, as 'anyone who says they are/feels like a woman' makes no sense, if woman in itself cannot be determined..

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dangermouseisace · 08/03/2017 15:13

and hijacking the entire thread.

amispartacus · 08/03/2017 15:13

I haven't argued that they are a man or a woman. I've said that their inclusion in statistics makes no difference to the fight of women. It doesn't endanger us nor our hard-won rights

Should they be included in statistics of sexual offences caused by women?

Why do we have statistics of offences broken down by men and women? What's the point of them - statistics are used to create policy and make policy decisions.

ArcheryAnnie · 08/03/2017 15:16

and no doubt would request to be put into a women's prison...

No doubt? That's a little Daily Mail-ish.

Except it's happened time and time again, websocket. It's not conjecture, it's happening now.

DianaMemorialJam · 08/03/2017 15:17

Yes danger I'm not going to engage with the misogynist anymore.

You can lead a horse to water and all that eh.

MrWriter · 08/03/2017 15:17

This scares me to op, this "man" is using the gender argument to his advantage. Its scary.

I hope the authorities have the sense to place him in a male prison, not put a rapist in a female prison, though I doubt there's any sense left in our legal departments when it comes to these kind of issues. Everyones on egg shells trying not to attract court cases and media attention, so the perpetrators are treated better than the victims.

xStefx · 08/03/2017 15:25

Im pretty sure the doctor looked at my vagina at birth, wrote on the birth certificate that I was female because of that.

So Yep, my vagina makes me female

so what if a guy likes dresses and makeup- doesn't mean he is female? Just means he is a guy that likes dresses. A trans man that has a sex changes obviously thinks having a vagina makes him female otherwise why have the operation?

jellyfrizz · 08/03/2017 15:28

web let me check that I'm understanding what you are saying:

You believe that there are male and female brains but those male and female brains are not necessarily in the respective male and female bodies?

WankingMonkey · 08/03/2017 15:31

forums.digitalspy.com/discussion/2208300/woman-26-appears-in-court-charged-with-raping-a-man-twice/p3

Look at all these people hailing this as a success that a woman has been done for raping someone ffs.

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EnidColeslaw771 · 08/03/2017 15:34

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Pallisers · 08/03/2017 15:40

I haven't argued that they are a man or a woman. I've said that their inclusion in statistics makes no difference to the fight of women. It doesn't endanger us nor our hard-won rights. 0

So if the two white men who carried out the Oklahoma bombings said they identified as black muslim women, you think it wouldn't matter if that attack was recorded as being carried out by black muslim women?

DianaMemorialJam · 08/03/2017 15:42

Monkey people on that thread are so stupid it's making my head hurt.

CasperGutman · 08/03/2017 15:42

What proportion of crimes are committed by trans-gender (in whichever direction) people? Surely it must be absolutely minute!

Atenco · 08/03/2017 15:43

I've said that their inclusion in statistics makes no difference to the fight of women

What do you think statistics are for then?

That article is so awful. For the record, the author is a PhD student researching female-perpetrated sex crimes Shame on the university that accepted her to study there, frankly, because she doesn't have a titter of wit