I'm glad
to know that I am as sleekit as fuck 
Because that is the implication as I am a supporter of the SNP
.
But given that in general I think that wankers is a reasonable person and I'm sure didn't mean to make such an outrageous generalisation, I'll try and address the substance of her comments.
Ds is at a secondary school where there are 55 languages spoken: Urdu, Punjabi, Polish, Roumanian, French, Italian, Spanish, Albanian are amongst some of the languages. His primary school had a majority of pupils for whom English was a 2nd language (I think there were 20 languages spoken, but the main language was Urdu). At both schools he got/is getting an excellent education. Despite - or because of that - we are an area which voted overwhelmingly Remain (higher than the Scottish average) and voted Yes in the Indyref. "Foreigners" don't scare us.
It is indeed about Civic nationalism.
One of my MN friends, who is now also a RL friend, is English and moved up here specifically because she didn't like what was happening in English politics and wanted to be able to vote Yes.
I've talked with SNP MPs who've said they would like nothing better than to "lose" their jobs and not have to commute down to London. They'd love to go back to their "old" jobs - they're not career politicians.
I am an adopted Scot. I was not born here but have lived here since I was 3 (barring an emigration and a reimmigration in my teens to NZ). I don't feel any less Scottish because of that. My father, who arrived here in his late 20s, considers himself to be Scottish (despite his accent which I can't hear but everyone else notices)
I also don't love my relatives (in South Africa, Germany, Denmark, Australia) any less because they are "foreign"
In fact, I think those that claim that it would damage their relationship with their English relatives because they would then be "foreign" are guilty of the worst form of nationalism
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If/when Scotland becomes independent, it will be up to all the parties who aspire to run the country (as opposed to complain from the sidelines) to ensure that they have viable policies that will encourage people to vote for them. That's what democracy, elections and manifestos are for.
I used to be a Labour voter. I was brought up to believe in socialist ideals - education and health at the forefront (it's no coincidence that my dad was a doctor and my mum a teacher). I still believe in those ideals. I'd love to have the choice of a real Labour Party to vote for. One that actually had principles
(Ok, that's a mirror image of the "sleekit" accusation that Wankers threw at SNP, so I really shouldn't generalise
). I do see the SNP splintering if/once independence is achieved, once that common objective is attained. Having said that, all the SNP members I have met are naturally left wing many of them former Labour but say they will never go near Labour again so there may not be much of a change. I don't know. But the future shape of parties will be up to the people of Scotland (wherever they came from initially).