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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

999 replies

birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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schmack · 09/01/2017 20:32

I would never use my car again if it meant I could block someone onto my own drive

I've never agreed with a sentiment more than this. I'd be calling an uber tommorow in your position if I had to go anywhere.

OhSuckItUpDucky · 09/01/2017 20:32

I think Caroline has lost her shit at Nicholas and will send him round tomorrow to collect her car most disappointing

TudorHouse · 09/01/2017 20:33

happy don't waste your time on those scammers! You know they won't allow you to #liveyourdebtdream like Hoover will! Besides, they won't be allowed here soon #brexitlowblow tell you what, because enough are getting in early and are such a good sucker, I will give you a 5p discount? I know it seems like a big leap but you have to take chances if you want to make money, right! You won't regret it, I promise! #fulloflies

SerialMover · 09/01/2017 20:34

Marking place!

EZA15 · 09/01/2017 20:35

Fucking hell Caroline, it's 8.30 and I've got coursework to do. Hurry up!

autumnmonths · 09/01/2017 20:35

You've got to keep her blocked in until she comes and apologises.
What a cheek leaving it all of this time!

FurryLittleTwerp · 09/01/2017 20:35

Yes yes, get an Uber tomorrow you know you want to

HelenRose1111 · 09/01/2017 20:35

If you go to work tomorrow (but you're ill, right?) chain her in, cheeky cow.
Any normal person would be round, full of apologies and blame it on Nasty Nick, telling her she could park there
Oh....if it was up to me Nasty Nick could move his own car to let the carer park, too
YOUR drive, in which YOU park. The End

MissBeehiving · 09/01/2017 20:36

OP, neither you or DH can go to work tomorrow

nancy75 · 09/01/2017 20:36

Why don't you just ask Nicholas which house Caroline lives in and then go round her house?

BerylStreep · 09/01/2017 20:36

What a fab thread.

On a serious note, and I know it has been mentioned already, you should take some pictures of her car on your drive. You never know when you might need them.

By this stage I would have reported it to the police as an abandoned vehicle.

HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:37

Judge Rinder was ON FIRE this afternoon

WASN'T he, though, Tinkle?

The man is a camp, legalistic god!

TondelayaDellaVentamiglia · 09/01/2017 20:37

Do you think, aside from the ample parking, that it's the US gun laws that help with their lack of parking issues?

All we have to play with is postits, a recycling bin and a penguin bollard.

TheCatsMother99 · 09/01/2017 20:37

I would never use my car again if it meant I could block someone onto my own drive

I've been guilty of this before, well, not never used it again but blocked someone in and used other methods to get about Grin

chocolateworshipper · 09/01/2017 20:38

Oh yes, yes - if you MUST go to work tomorrow - get a taxi / a lift from someone else.

And PLEASE invest in a wifi home security camera to point at your drive (and learn how to upload video to MN)

mogloveseggs · 09/01/2017 20:38

Can't believe the brass neck of her to still not have collected it!

MerylPeril · 09/01/2017 20:38

Can we crowd-fund to buy OP a new car so she never has to move hers again?

refusetobeasheep · 09/01/2017 20:39

OK, turnaround folks! Say I'm Caro (am i?!). Let's while away the time until I / Caro turn up, by mumsnetters suggesting the best thing for Caro (me?!) to do as of now?!
My vote: hire a big dick costume, rock up dancing saying I know I am one in case I could joke my way out of this ....

TheCatsMother99 · 09/01/2017 20:39

Where do you live, OP, can one of us be your chauffeur for a week or two (or ten)?

pluck · 09/01/2017 20:41

#sosad at all this #PassatPrejudice Sad(#middlemanagementindeed!)
For the purposes of this thread, Passats are brilliant cars: very long, very wide turning circle.... oops, bump!

BlackeyedSusan · 09/01/2017 20:41

I imagine it's awful to be one of those saddos that gets over-invested in a thread and forgets to put dinner on.

Oh SHIT!!!!!

oh double shit...

HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:42

it's the US gun laws that help with their lack of parking issues?

Tondelaya - don't make me weep!

Now I'm imagining what fun we could have if everyone here carried a Kalashnikov . . . ()

WitchSharkadder · 09/01/2017 20:42

18 pages and still no Caroline? Shock

This is clearly not a placemark...

dowhatnow · 09/01/2017 20:42

tonde

Grin
Smurfy23 · 09/01/2017 20:44

This is just too good. I would take tomorrow off- you are really ill after all so this is not a lie. Get up early, make yourself a nice cuppa, sit back and enjoy the floor show! Then when it's finished post the gory details on here!