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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:44

Where the hell IS this wumman!?

God - she's a selfish cow! People are WAITING, Caroline!

W-A-I-T-I-N-G!

DartmoorDoughnut · 09/01/2017 20:44

Can't believe she hasn't tried to retrieve her car yet!

ChasedByBees · 09/01/2017 20:45

I would also go and bother Nicholas to find out where Caroline lived. Either that or go on holiday spontaneously.

Thecatmademedoit · 09/01/2017 20:45

There's no way she'll come for it now !

Looks like you'll have to take tomorrow off OP to fully recover. ( and win this battle. )

Thecatmademedoit · 09/01/2017 20:45

YY to chased idea about going on a spontaneous holiday.

sobeyondthehills · 09/01/2017 20:46

I am trying to play a game on my laptop, while also watching if she is going to turn up.

not placemarking at all

sm40 · 09/01/2017 20:47

Can you go banging on the neighbours doors?? Or maybe they are lying low with the lights out!!!

HighlandMcChancer · 09/01/2017 20:47

Omg just read through this!! I'd be putting bricks behind her tyres so she can't move the car & wouldve called the police/local council to report fly tipping of an unauthorised vehicle on your property! Has she appeared yet?

StarBurger · 09/01/2017 20:47

Cheeky bitch! Bet she turns up in the dead of night. Please keep her car hostage until she has the balls to knock! Wine

girlandboy · 09/01/2017 20:47

Oh come on Caroline, man up and face the music!

Scrumptiousbears · 09/01/2017 20:48

I'd be really annoyed by this. Although both my neighbour and i do this to each other but with agreement. We also have permit parking. Do they not do day permits? Our council does at £1 per ticket in books of 10 I think but pensioners get them half price.

Manumission · 09/01/2017 20:48

Can we crowd-fund to buy OP a new car so she never has to move hers again?

Sounds reasonable and proportionate to me.

It's either that or we set up a "blocking in Caroline" rota Smile

Akire · 09/01/2017 20:48

19paged and no sign! She has to live very close it's not like you aren't going see where the car is going to be parked in future. Unless she's planning undercover paint job and fake number plate tomorrow.

ColourfulOrangex · 09/01/2017 20:48

Ohhh I'm too excited to find out what happens Blush

BalloonSlayer · 09/01/2017 20:49

IF I was Caroline I would blame it all on Nicholas, say that he said you had told him it was fine, nay, that you wanted people to park there because your drive gets lonely.

Admiralclingus · 09/01/2017 20:49

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Ilovecaindingle · 09/01/2017 20:50

This is gonna end up like the hat man thread I feel. . .

TheFarceAwakens · 09/01/2017 20:50

She's going to wait until you both leave for work in the morning.

AprilLudgateDwyer · 09/01/2017 20:50

I'm so upset Caroline hasn't been yet!!!

CheckpointCharlie2 · 09/01/2017 20:50

This is bonkers! I think she's too scared to come back.

I used to know someone called Caroline, she would definitely have done this.

Namejustfornappies · 09/01/2017 20:50

cherry I was in latent labour for over 2 weeks with dc#3. Had a thread about it and everything Grin

Manumission · 09/01/2017 20:51

I don't think OP will fall for that Farce.

This OP is hardcore

Glamorousglitter · 09/01/2017 20:51

Soon cheeky of them
OP

Tarunsmummy · 09/01/2017 20:52

Sweet Caroline (WTAF) ...

Questioningeverything · 09/01/2017 20:53

You know what's gonna happen. Caroline will show up tomorrow morning, bang like fury having spent the night working herself up because someone is stopping her from having HER PROPERTY scream in ops face that she didn't know it wasn't ok to park there- cause op doesn't have SIGNS to say no parking to random strangers allowed. Therefore it is totally ops fault and how dare she come home early anyway, it would never have been a problem if she'd had the decency to stay at work during the usual hours.