To find this creepy from DH?

[Christmasjingles]

My DH keeps trying to "catch" me naked when I'm getting dressed/undressed.
I've asked him not to do it as it makes me uncomfortable and not really in the right frame of mind to feel sexy/want sex. It's been a week or so since we last had sex due to having family stay, being away, staying up really late. He says it's the onlu way he's going to see me naked and what is wrong with that? We have more family coming to stay today until Monday and have loads to do as we got back from a long journey at midnight last night.
I have tried to tell him gently that groping me while I'm cooking or washing up is not very nice for me & joked that it's always when I'm doing something subservient (although I don't find it a joke really)
What can I do to try to change this? (We've been together 13 years & have 3 dcs btw)

My ex was like this...come up behind me while I was washing up and grab a handful of my arse or put both hands over my boobs. I hated it, not being touched by the way it was all about him. If he had come up behind me and gently brushed my bum and kissed my neck I would have loved it because he was touching me in a way I liked to be touched.

Instead it was the comedy honking on the boobs, grabbing my boobs and grinding his crotch into me, dry humping me whenever I bent over... I fucking hated it and he was extremely selfish and bad in bed to boot. I wonder if the two things are linked sometimes

Thankyou for this thread OP and posters. It's been very helpful to me, hope it helps OP too

Touching someone sexually when you know they don't you to is SEXUAL ASSAULT.

Doesn't matter if you are married, in a relationship or have consented in the past. And ignorance is no defense.

Leave this thread open where he will see it.

@notrocketscience - sorry, do you mean he juggled his DIL's breasts? Not his wife's but his son's girlfriend's?

Fucking hell

@Vapours

Fanciedachange17 Sat 31-Dec-16 17:19:53

Leave this thread open where he will see it.

Not a good idea, actually. People like him never see themselves in the descriptions of their behaviour, and it'll just get twisted round so the OP appears in the wrong.

Jeeze I am older than god but have only come across one male who thought this behaviour was ok.

Age is irrelevant if you have been told to stop something as its upsetting someone then you stop end of, otherwise = arrogant selfish, git.

Genuinely can't believe those posters who are saying there's something wrong with the OPs relationship because she doesn't enjoy being her DPs sex object, available to be gawped at or groped whenever he feels like it!

I.e. Something wrong with the OP, and not something wrong with her DP!

notrocketscience

Your poor SIL.