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AIBU?

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To tell my dm she got it badly wrong?

132 replies

Cherrysoup · 19/12/2016 23:21

She told me tonight that she'd got the dh something Simpsons related, the Private Eye annual and a diary. She thinks he likes the Simpsons. He doesn't. She told me he loves Private Eye: he's never mentioned it, isn't into political satire and all his reading material is on kindle. Our diary is online, Google, shared on all the mobile devices at home so we can make sure we know each other's schedule.

I appreciate that she has put in thought and has bought him presents. She could have simply sent vouchers, easy for her (she's physically and mentally fine)

I don't know where she's got these ideas from and the gifts will be charity shopped. He won't be ungrateful, she won't know (they live 5 hours away, she's sending them down with a relative who is coming down), but I think she should save herself the time and effort. AIBU to tell her that he isn't into the things she bought? It's not the first time she's done this, I did mention it previously, especially the diary thing.

I wouldn't do it now, but in time for next year. I think, knowing her, she'd prefer to get him something he really likes, but she doesn't listen!

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GetTheeBehindMeSanta · 20/12/2016 16:47

This is a token gift. It would cause more trouble to reject it than it would be to find a home for the items.

I think everyone likes a flick through a Private Eye annual anyway, so good for your mum for choosing something safe.

TheCatsMother99 · 20/12/2016 16:49

I wouldn't tell her as they seem thoughtful and I would't want to hurt her feelings.

elodie2000 · 20/12/2016 17:35

So what if he doesn't like the gifts? He will tell her he does and she will be happy.

Topseyt · 20/12/2016 20:07

mashable.com/2015/12/17/r2-d2-refrigerator-9000-price/#UtCBFxXhzGqJ

There it is. I think anyway, and hopefully the link works.

Cherrysoup · 20/12/2016 20:13

It only holds six cans wtf?! Where will I put my prosecco?!

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PlanIsNoPlan · 20/12/2016 20:25

Couldn't you turn it an annual joke between you and DP? What's DM got you this year then DP? It might help you get over the Stately Home issues too, which I suggest 'unsnippingly'; it helps to minimalize things and get on with life with the people that really are important and good to you - your DP, not your DM.

Topseyt · 20/12/2016 20:35

Can you get prosecco in cans?

I think you can get some wine in cans, though it wouldn't be my chosen container for buying it in.

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