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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

But it isn't mine!

209 replies

Wallywobbles · 10/11/2016 08:32

Definitely more of a WWYD.

My exh is planning to take me to court for having a Facebook name using his surname. I live in France and I do not have the right to use his surname since the divorce and never have. Been divorced for nearly 9 years.

But, it's not my page. It belongs to an American lady which a cursory glance shows. It's clearly not mine. Not entirely sure how to tackle this.

Please can someone let me know what they would do. I am secretly delighted that he googles my old married name after all these years.

He is not a nice person. EA DV massively controlling etc.

OP posts:
Footle · 28/07/2017 09:18

Sorry you had to go through such years of awfulness. What a great result.

mistywillow17 · 28/07/2017 09:20

What a fantastic outcome - so happy for you and your girls

YouTheCat · 28/07/2017 09:20

You're free!

AnathemaPulsifer · 28/07/2017 09:22

That's fantastic! So pleased for you. Your poor girls - the review of his visits with them Shock

EchoesOfLeon · 28/07/2017 09:25

Well done! Flowers

altiara · 28/07/2017 09:29

Amazing update! Star

C0untDucku1a · 28/07/2017 09:36

Well done op. I bet your lawyers dine out on stories of your exs idiocy!

JennyOnAPlate · 28/07/2017 09:49

Bloody brilliant op! Wishing you and your dds a very happy future Flowers

Hissy · 28/07/2017 09:56

Oh god I remember you OP, it was just beyond horrific!

He has LOST PR? You are all finally free! thank GOD!!

Well done for being so strong, well done for being such a great example to your kids and an inspiration to us all.

LazyDailyMailJournos · 28/07/2017 09:59

Oh what a brilliant update - well done OP. Congratulations on your marriage and best wishes to you and your family for a happy and stress-free future in your new home! Flowers

HipsterHunter · 28/07/2017 09:59

AMAZING NEWS OP!

WineAndTiramisu · 28/07/2017 10:06

Fantastic, I remember the original thread, glad there's been a good outcome!

DeleteOrDecay · 28/07/2017 10:07

I agree don't do anything. He sounds demented, it's Facebook ffs and it's not even your profile!

He will only end up making himself look foolish. Sit back and enjoy op.

DeleteOrDecay · 28/07/2017 10:11

Whoops, sorry op for some reason the latest comments didn't load when I posted.

Glad everything worked out for you, fantasticCake

Orangetoffee · 28/07/2017 10:12

Thanks for the update and fantastic news for you and your girls, well done!

redexpat · 28/07/2017 10:17

Brilliant update!

mummmy2017 · 28/07/2017 10:29

What a great end to a post.

Live long and Prosper.

Lynnm63 · 28/07/2017 10:45

Well done OP, congratulations it must feel like you won the lottery.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to update us.

WeAreEternal · 28/07/2017 11:36

This is amazing news, congratulations.

Enjoy your new life with your new DH and your new home with your beautiful girls.

Therealslimshady1 · 28/07/2017 11:42

Great news!

jay55 · 28/07/2017 11:57

Amid all the entitled fuckers threads this update was a sheer joy to read.

Congratulations on seeing it through. You are amazing and strong and giving your girls the best future.

pimmsy · 28/07/2017 11:58

Bravo! Bonne vacances!

P.s did you get costs ( article 700) ?
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RhodaBorrocks · 28/07/2017 12:24

Fantastic news OP! Congratulations! Wine

Wallywobbles · 28/07/2017 12:30

Gosh thank you all so much. Fantastic support.

OP posts:
WrittenandGrown · 28/07/2017 13:10

Congratulations. I remember your post last year and so happy for you for your happy ending.

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