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But it isn't mine!

209 replies

Wallywobbles · 10/11/2016 08:32

Definitely more of a WWYD.

My exh is planning to take me to court for having a Facebook name using his surname. I live in France and I do not have the right to use his surname since the divorce and never have. Been divorced for nearly 9 years.

But, it's not my page. It belongs to an American lady which a cursory glance shows. It's clearly not mine. Not entirely sure how to tackle this.

Please can someone let me know what they would do. I am secretly delighted that he googles my old married name after all these years.

He is not a nice person. EA DV massively controlling etc.

OP posts:
backintown · 28/07/2017 08:26

I remember this, what a great outcome - good luck to you and your girls.

SorrelSoup · 28/07/2017 08:26

Great update! I remember the original thread.

FastAbsorbingCake · 28/07/2017 08:29

Woop Woop, I do remember this thread (really need to get out more.....)So nice to hear it worked out well but I'm still a bit Shock at his, well daftness!

HashiAsLarry · 28/07/2017 08:30

What a wonderful outcome Star

Longhairmightcare · 28/07/2017 08:34

Good for you OP CakeFlowersand well done for protecting your daughters against this man for the future.

MissWilmottsGhost · 28/07/2017 08:38

So nice to hear of a dickhead ex getting what they deserve Grin

Hurrah!

manglethedangle · 28/07/2017 08:38

Well done OP. Thanks for update. Shows that sometimes it is worth the fight and you can win.

Poshtottykins · 28/07/2017 08:39

It's so lovely when people remember to come back and update - even better when it's so wonderful x Thank you

DownTownAbbey · 28/07/2017 08:40

Fantastic outcome!

fairgame84 · 28/07/2017 08:49

Well done you completely deserve to be rid on the cunt Flowers

FlyMeToDunoon · 28/07/2017 08:49

Yay! Brilliant results OP.

Madwoman5 · 28/07/2017 08:50

Does he honestly believe that you are the only person in the world with that name? Loonytoon! The judge will not appreciate the time wasting.

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 28/07/2017 08:51

Wallywobbles - what an amazing update! So very pleased for you, thank goodness you got a sane and upstanding judge!
I do love it when things go the way they should - if only it happened more often! x Thanks

64PooLane · 28/07/2017 08:54

OP, that is amazing. I have a tear in my eye. WELL DONE Flowers

Ofthread · 28/07/2017 08:55

Wow! Hope you are enjoying life afresh.

FanwankTheAbsurd · 28/07/2017 09:00

Yay, that's great news 👍🏻

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 28/07/2017 09:00

Oh Wallywobbles, what a blessed relief !
It really touched a nerve, when you said you're little girls eczema reared its ugly head, delighted she's no longer suffering.
The man is a monster.
A wonderful update, giving others with little hope, something to cling on to.
Many congratulations on your recent marriage, I wish you all, a very happy ever after. 🍾💐⭐️

GeekyWombat · 28/07/2017 09:02

Really lovely update, so happy for you all.

Farewell to the Cockwomble!

RebootYourEngine · 28/07/2017 09:05

When i opened this threadand saw the date i thought 'oh here we go some troll has posted on a zombie thread' how glad i was when it was an update. I read your thread but didnt post. Glad he got what he deserved. He sounds like an awful person.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 28/07/2017 09:08

Congratulatlions Wolly. Wow, whatba specimen he is....

lougle · 28/07/2017 09:09

Congratulations to you all, and hooray for no eczema 🥂

Pumperthepumper · 28/07/2017 09:10

I remember this thread, so glad it's worked out so brilliantly!

BBQsAreSooooOverrated · 28/07/2017 09:12

Great update. Glad things have improved for you. 🍷to no more cockwomble ex.

DeadGood · 28/07/2017 09:14

airpunch AMAZING, OP. So happy for you all. What a brilliant result.
Hanks so much for coming back and updating, too.

LaurieFairyCake · 28/07/2017 09:15

That's a fantastic update SmileFlowers
Well done

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