...to ask what's the nastiest thing someone's ever said or done to you?

[OohFloorPie]

Feeling a little low tonight, anxiety playing up and ruminating on things that happened long ago. So I thought I'd ask if others are willing to share the nastiest things people have ever said or done to them.

I'll go first. When I was at college I drunkenly admitted that I was attracted to women as well as men and that I thought one of the girls in my group of friends was attractive.

In the cold light of day I expected things to be awkward and apologised, but didn't expect that this group of rather alternative women would turn around and not only shun me, but call me sick, twisted, perverted and start an online harassment campaign against me.

Years later I still feel like I am a terrible person who deserved what happened and still feel awful. Particularly as I've never acted on any attraction I've felt towards women as although I find them attractive, I'm not interested in a same sex relationship and definitely prefer men overall.

What's your worst experience?

Oh and I was being really badly bullied for the shape of my head at secondary school (kids are bizzare) and one of my friends said "don't worry I don't think you have a weird head! Your eyes are a bit too close together though"

Thanks Hun, that wasn't even on my effing radar until you mentioned it, just what I needed

As a 16-year-old virgin, being pressured into anal sex whilst drunk by a guy with a girlfriend ( he was 23) who then ignored me.
I blamed myself for a long time.

Someone I was at uni with- whilst very intoxicated, he told me everyone on our (small, tight-knit) course absolutely hated me, thought I was really weird so must be a murderer, wtf???!!!

I dropped out soon after and was too ashamed to tell anyone why.

It took a long time to talk about it without crying.

My Mum and Dad constantly saying hurtful things about my job etc. I have one with no status and not high-earning, and used to just get minimum wage for years.

When I was at school they criticised everything about my grades etc. They told me I would end up working in the fish and chip shop. Or in a factory putting olives onto pizzas on a production line.