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AIBU not to pay for decapitated teddy bear

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RestlessTraveller · 10/10/2016 12:32

So I have a rescue dog who is lovely but has suffered appalling treatment in the past.
He loves meeting people but is very excitable so I am very careful when he is around people. Today I was sat outside a coffee shop and he was being extremely well behaving sitting beside my chair, a woman with a boy aged about 3 came
and sat at the table next to me. The little
boy asked if he could stroke the dog and I explained it was best not to as he might jump up at him. Cue an almighty tantrum, with him screaming "I want to stroke the puppy", his mother told him not to because the dog was obviously "vicious". I explained that he wasn't vicious just excitable. To which point the child yelled "nasty doggy" and kicked out at him missing my my dog, but very close by. I told him not to do it again and to go back and sit with his mother which he did but minutes later he threw his teddy bear at him at which point my dog looked at this soft toy on the ground, picked it up and promptly ripped it's head off. Whilst trying not to die of embarrassment I apologised but the mother completely flipped out, telling me that it was a dangerous dog and should be put to sleep. She then demanded that I pay for the toy. I told her that if he child hadn't thrown it the dog would never have got his paws on it and walked off. I don't think I was BU but my friend thinks I should have coffed up. What do you think?

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FrancisCrawford · 13/10/2016 08:23

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kali110 · 13/10/2016 10:33

kon Wine imagine it's a spirit? Grin

francis i had some kids threaten my pet once Angry though they were a lot older than 3 and should def have known better.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 13/10/2016 11:10

When I was a teenager we had a lovely dog who was well behaved and a pleasure to take out. One day I took her for a walk and a kid ran up to her and before I could do anything shouted 'Doggy' and hit her hard across the snout. She snapped at him. I was ready to defend her when his mother came running over, apologised and told me he'd learnt a lesson for next time.

I was lucky the kid wasn't hurt and the mother was reasonable. Hopefully he did learn a lesson, although I'd much rather it hadn't been with my dog.

weeds, that is shocking. I wouldn't care how good the friend was, it would be the end of the friendship for me. Flowers to you and your poor cat

supermoon100 · 13/10/2016 11:41

Contempt is rather a strong word for a woman you've never met

hmcAsWas · 13/10/2016 12:53

"I despair"

Kondo, I don't think many of us care whether you despair or not. Do bore off with your excessive self-righteousness, its frankly tedious.

ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 13/10/2016 13:01

I'm sure she'd be delightful if I were to meet here and I can bring my dog along so her son has someone to kick.

ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 13/10/2016 13:09

In hindsight maybe you are right.
Not just contempt, I'll add some disgust to that as well, just like for anyone else who hurts animals or allows them to be hurt, whether I've met them or not.

supermoon100 · 13/10/2016 13:10

You sound like you want to kick someone !

2kids2dogsnosense · 13/10/2016 13:19

I want to kick people who over-indulge their kids - especially at the expense of vulnerable animals.

Shall we form an orderly line?

FrancisCrawford · 13/10/2016 13:26

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ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 13/10/2016 13:43

No.

I've never knowingly kicked someone.
Funny thing to assume though.

ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 13/10/2016 13:47

We don't need to stoop down to their level, 2kids.
Grin

Dieu · 13/10/2016 13:57

Ha ha, brilliant! Give your dog a big cuddle from me Grin

2kids2dogsnosense · 13/10/2016 14:09

We don't need to, no. Grin

Serialweightwatcher · 15/10/2016 12:16

You did the right thing - if toys get thrown around out of temper, they can get damaged by a dog or by other means. The woman should have watched her child more carefully and taken him away when you said you didn't want him to pet the dog. The woman was probably just panicking that she'd have hell on at bedtime with an incomplete bear but that was her fault, not yours and not your dogs

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