AIBU to think its just bizarre behaviour and rude to do this?

[Sparklyshoes16]

Today I went for meet up with a few friends and one of them didn't want to finish off their lunch so turned round to me in front of our group and said "I'm so full, here you finish this off", I declined and carried on with mine. We then ordered cake and coffee to finish off before going home, she had a very small bite of what she ordered and then again in front of everyone said "here you might as well finish this" again I declined and carried on eating what I had ordered. It was still sat there when we had all finished eating and she said "stop staring at it and have it if you want it" very loudly. I firmly said I don't want it and carried on talking/eating to everyone else I wasn't even looking at it. She has done this a few times in front of other people and I'm not sure why as I have never finished off someone else's meal (only my own family when I've been really hungry ). I'm quite large and she is VERY skinny so i don't know if it's just some sly dig...my other friend text me and asked if i was OK as she had noticed it became a little frosty...I don't want to reply as she is known to make a drama out of things...just feeling a little bit hurt...were all meant to be going out tomorrow night for another friend's joint birthday meal but don't feel like going as don't want any comments whilst eating.

[YouTheCat]

So after the meal, they sent you loads of photos of them out enjoying themselves without you?

I don't think I have ever heard anything so low and childish in my entire life... and I've known some right twats.

You are well rid.

[BerylStreep]

I'm glad to hear you got rid of them.

I knew a girl once (who was like a flipping limpet when I was travelling - clearly didn't actually like me, but wanted to have someone to travel with. I finally got rid of her by pretending to go on a buddhist retreat in Thailand), anyway she used to ask to try on anything I had just bought and then would spend ages inspecting how the waistband gaped on her. It became most tiresome.

I recall she had really complicated friendships with lots of lies told to different people. She was exhausting.

[Sparklyshoes16]

Ooh not good Berylstreep...that's exactly how I feel tired and rather annoyed with myself that I hadn't sorted this years ago...just glad I've finally woke up...husband's friend's wife is lovely but she's away a lot arranged to meet up with her when she gets back

[Sparklyshoes16]

Yes they did and it's not the first time they've done it Youthecat it used to really upset me then they would convince me I was being sensitive. I went to see my friends who don't live in this city took photos with them and it felt nice to be included. Been a strange day of euphoria mixed with ok I have no friends here now but regardless it's a damn sight better than the way I've been feeling for the last few years

[dustarr73]

Well done op,and i would like the pictures.Drive them mad it will.Put your own ones up and gush about teh fantastic night.food was fab.

[ItShouldHaveBeenJess]

Ah, sparkly - quality, not quantity. I only have three real friends, but they are worth a hundred less supportive ones! I think it's a rite of passage - you get a little wiser as you get older regarding who really values you and who doesn't . I'm proud of you for taking a stance. It had to be done.

[Sparklyshoes16]

Dustarr73 yes was thinking to do that but then thought it's more hassle than it's worth...they live making people feel small and I don't! I did however have a blitz of replacing photos of them with my real friends...the house feels so much warmer...

ItshouldhavebeenJess definitely quality not quantity feels so much better knowing I have nothing to do with them anymore just feel abit lonely knowing there's no one close by but again it's definitely better than how I've been feeling in the past!

[mimishimmi]

She was being nasty. Avoid her in future. A certain type get pissed off if you don't constantly praise them for/note their slimness in comparison to yourself and try to force the topic with crap like this. What a jerk.

[Dontpanicpyke]

Glad to catch up op.

What absolute stupid thick and boring cows. You well shot lovely and well done for ditching them. Total idiots.