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To cut my husband's ****edited by MNHQ**** with blunt scissors?

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Pinkbabe1 · 28/09/2016 13:11

So my husband works shifts and this week it is his early shift - he is gone from the house by 5am. I came down this morning to find he had left his iPhone on the worktop. As I was making breakfast for DC's I pressed the home button on his phone to check the time and saw an unread message from my best friend of 27 years saying "is she in bed yet?".

Now, it's my birthday next week so I thought they were arranging some special surprise for me. So left it as that. Dropped the kids off at school but something was niggling at me, I just had this feeling in my gut. His iPhone has got a passcode which I don't know. On my third attempt, by pure and utter luck, I managed to guess it right and get into his phone. What I have seen has made me sick to my stomach. My "friend" has been sending my husband dirty naked pics of herself - full on legs spread and sex toys involved. There are no replies or conversation from him but then I guess these can be deleted??? I noticed he's saved the pictures to his camera roll also - presumably for quick access. I have no idea if they have met - I can't think straight at the moment it feels like everything is in slow motion

My husband NEVER leaves his phone at home so I suspect this was a mistake. I've currently packed all his bags and I am just about to post the pictures of my "friend" on Facebook with a tag saying "you are welcome to him"

I don't know what to do

OP posts:
AndieNZ · 28/09/2016 23:31

Pink

Stay strong. Don't let them get the better of you. Stick to what your gut instinct is telling you.

BummyMummy77 · 28/09/2016 23:59

Pink - I'm in awe of you to be honest. I'd be in a different place to you now.

Pat yourself on the back and don't let anyone ever tell you that you aren't as wonderful as they come.

You'll become a better and stronger person from this. Flowers

Chinnygirl · 29/09/2016 06:58

You sound like an amazing person OP. I have so much respect for you that you stay within your morals and don't accept this bullshit. You are a much stronger person than them. They can't even face you. Please keep being so strong. The next couple of months will be hard for you if course but I am sure you will find happiness again.

Chocolate123 · 29/09/2016 07:20

The next few months will be tough op but you will get through it. I hope you will find someone in rl to lean on. Well done on staying strong. Flowers

Rubberduck2 · 29/09/2016 07:23

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NoFucksImAQueen · 29/09/2016 11:59

Argh I can't believe people have taken issue with the title. You're allowed to say cunty flaps and knob rot on here and no one bats an eyelid. Even if you felt the title was too much surely people can just take a second to understand that this isn't about you it's about pink.

NoFucksImAQueen · 29/09/2016 12:00

Pink I so want to just give you a big hug.
I know the chances of you living in Nottingham are slim but if you do I'd love to buy you a big slice of cake and a bottle of wine FlowersWine

DigestiveMuncher · 29/09/2016 12:25

Nofucks it's most likely the same few people who have done nothing but pick the OPs post to pieces since first commenting dickheads

pennygoodlife · 29/09/2016 14:02

Hope Nofucks made you smile, I had a chortle - a bit of light relief if nothing else Pink

SarcasmMode · 29/09/2016 14:38

Hoe come we can post past 1000 I thought 1001 was the limit?

venusinscorpio · 29/09/2016 14:42

Think it's a glitch in the mobile app.

DoloresVanCartier · 29/09/2016 14:48

How are things today pink?

idontlikealdi · 29/09/2016 14:50

Why on earth did the title need to be edited?!

bumpetybumpbumpbump · 29/09/2016 14:57

Is penis a swear word or was it the threat of butchery/torture/punishment?

phillipp · 29/09/2016 15:03

I hope you are ok OP.

DigestiveMuncher · 29/09/2016 15:03

A few of the commenters reported the post because they think that the OP is a troll & the post is a pack of lies made up for attention etc Hmm and probably decided because the post hasn't been deleted they'd start on the title?
I myself saw absolutely nothing wrong with it..

90sChild · 29/09/2016 16:39

Oh no I hope this isn't a troll,been thinking about the OP and wondering how she is.

Kittykat1976 · 13/10/2016 09:54

This whole thread is so obviously a troll. Mumsnet at its most unhealthy.

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