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to think ASMR is a load of rubbish.

117 replies

Latentprint · 30/06/2016 22:31

It doesn't do anything for me. Confused
All that silly whispering, from left to right. I don't get it. Confused
Am I being an old grump?

Or is it simply a case of finding the right one?

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janethegirl2 · 30/06/2016 22:33

ASMR?? Wtf is it?

dudsville · 30/06/2016 22:33

What Janet said. ..

MorrisZapp · 30/06/2016 22:34

Not everybody gets tingles from it. If you don't get tingles from gentlewhispering on YouTube it's safe to say you're impervious.

It's still great just to relax with though. Personally I do get tingles but I hate the ear to ear stuff and tapping noises.

FuglyBitch · 30/06/2016 22:34

Gives me tingles

RudeElf · 30/06/2016 22:34

What is it?

Atlas15 · 30/06/2016 22:35

Google it.

Never heard of though OP. Until I googled it obviously.

Caffeinator · 30/06/2016 22:35

I think it's meant to be quite subjective, works for some people and not for others so if popular videos haven't worked on you then it's likely it just wouldn't work for you at all. I used to get it when I was a child but don't now.

janethegirl2 · 30/06/2016 22:37

No definition yet? I call bullshit!!!

Latentprint · 30/06/2016 22:37

I'm jealous. I'm not getting the tingles Wink

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MaddyHatter · 30/06/2016 22:38

its very subjective.. i can't STAND it, its like nails on a chalk board to me.

I have friends who love it though, but they know not to send me the videos!

summeraupair · 30/06/2016 22:39

I get ASMR but also have misophonia, so am really picky about which videos I listen Some give me the full-on intense head tingles, some knock me out into proper deep sleep, and some trigger my misophonic rage. So maybe it is a case of finding the 'right one' Wink

janethegirl2 · 30/06/2016 22:40

Just googled it. It is bullshit!

MaddyHatter · 30/06/2016 22:40

ought to add, i have Misophonia, so it's hardly surprising i want to smack the ASMR people Grin

RudeElf · 30/06/2016 22:40

If it involves whispering i know for sure i'll hate it.

Roomba · 30/06/2016 22:40

It works for me. Well, some of it does, other elements don't do much for me.

I find lots of it super relaxing and it helps me get to sleep.

LadyStarkOfWinterfell · 30/06/2016 22:41

It's not bullshit, it's something that some people like and others don't. Like lots of things. What's your problem?

MaddyHatter · 30/06/2016 22:41

Jane, its not bullshit, its supposed to work along the same lines as white noise, there's certain noises and tones that give people pleasant sensation.

dudsville · 30/06/2016 22:42

What does asmr strange for please?

janethegirl2 · 30/06/2016 22:42

I've no problem. If ppl think it works for them, ok. But it is still bullshit!

Ellioru · 30/06/2016 22:42

Huh? It works for me. Sometimes it's the only way I can manage to fall asleep at night.

Latentprint · 30/06/2016 22:42

ASMR stands for Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response and it refers to a phenomenon which is very difficult to explain to those that do not experience it. It is usually experienced through a relaxing tingling in the scalp and the back of the neck and can extend into the rest of the body.

There are about a million ASMR examples on Youtube.

I only heard about it the other day.
Apparently it's been a 'thing' for a while Confused

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MaddyHatter · 30/06/2016 22:43

Autonomous sensory meridian response

janethegirl2 · 30/06/2016 22:44

A bit woo-woo, if you're into that!

Atlas15 · 30/06/2016 22:44

Wow just thinking about this make me think that I have experienced this.
Can you get it from certain peoples voices.
Sometimes I find a certain persons voice relaxing and I want them to carry on talking.

Latentprint · 30/06/2016 22:45

I'm assuming like most things, there are really good ones and not so good ones.
Which ones are good?

Which ones are 100% guaranteed to give me the 'tingles'?

Or am I better of using something else for that? Hmm

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