To think my husband is a complete c***?

[Whatiswrongwithmykid]

He had a work lunch today. He has said all along that it's a lunch so therefore he will be back this evening. We have kids including a non sleeping baby. He has already been out the past 2 nights. He knows I'm exhausted and at the end of my tether.

I dumped the baby on him at 6.30 am this morning as I just couldn't take it any longer and needed sleep. I told him before he left that I needed him home tonight.

You can guess where this is going can't you! I text him at 5.30 to see if he was finished. He eventually replied an hour later to say he needed " a pass" but wouldn't be too late. Not heard a word since. I'm fuming! I have no help at all, except him. So I've not had a break or any help with the kids since Tuesday night. I'm shattered and I face another night of being up every hour.

Peachpudding, funnily enough, this thread isn't about you. Off you pop.

He's a fucking arsehole and you're consigning yourself to a lifetime of this.

what, I am sorry you are struggling :( do you have Homestart in your area? It wont make up for your arse of a husband, but a volunteer for a couple of hours a week might help you a bit.

Do you know where he is? Take the DC, handover and check into a hotel. Only half joking.

Yes, let's stretch a charitable organisation even further, taking away help from families and mothers that actually need it because she's married to a cunt! He's the father of this child! I'd be getting the hell out of the 'marriage'

seriously put your foot down now - tell him if he doesn't get his backside home now then his clothes will be in a bin bag on the pavement and the front door will be locked.

You need to get very tough with him or he will keep repeating this, lets face it he's not being a team player with you, he's not got your back he's off on a jolly every chance he gets.

Peach why does Op have it so much easier than you? Because she has a husband? A selfish cunt of a husband. You sound very bitter

What relevance do DHs who pay for everything have here peachpudding? OP has said nothing to suggest she's got one of those.

What use would he be to me now after drinking since lunchtime?

For what it's worth I've been contemplating leaving the " marriage" for some time now. I have a small baby though and need his "support". Which turns out to be a complete joke.

What is wrong with some posters??!

Op, yup, he's a cunt, so, what are you going to do?

Yanbu. Why all the angst over single parenting from a pp? A completely different kettle of fish.

OP, when he comes home how about you don't give him a verbal bollocking? Be icily cold and polite. Don't give him any attention beyond the bare minimum when the kids are about. Saying he'll take the grief is saying he thinks you're a nag and he can do what he wants. Well don't give him what he expects. Wrong foot him.

If you're contemplating leaving then get your ducks in a row - find a solicitor, get all your documents and financial information together. He sounds like a tosser

God I was just feeling sorry for myself being single until I read this and it reminded me of how much worse it is with a partner that doesn't support you! YANBU it is so much more difficult when you have a partner that doesn't bother doing there bit and let's you down.
Let's hope he brings you back flowers and chocolate, make him grovel and make it up to you. And in the meantime consol yourself with some online retail therapy preferably using his bank card mhaha

If baby is not breastfeed go and spend tomorrow night in a premier inn with a full cooked breakfast. Wander back in about noon

Some very angry people on this thread- since when did it become the norm to drop the word 'cunt' into every sentence? Weird

peachpudding it's called jealousy.

We don't have any parents to help.
I won't be seeing him when he gets in anyway whenever that will be.

Tomorrow he will be full of justifications as to why he "had" to stay. His new colleagues were there! How could he leave? Getting pissed with them is obviously so important.

Clearly more important than his kids! I told him I was on the verge of snapping. Today I feel a lot better but he doesn't know that. For all he knows I could have jumped off a bridge taking the kids with me.

I appreciate the thought but really chocolates, flowers or shopping wouldn't even register towards apologising for this.

Is he socially secure.

Cunts are warm and deep. Cock is a better word, useless for 98% of the time.