Hubby watching porn

[SarahJane333]

I'm not sure why this bothers me so much but yesterday morning I took the children to school, normally this would take about 35 minutes but I decided to drop them and leave as I couldn't get parked so I arrived home 15 minutes early. Dh normally leaves for work either just before I leave for school or just after but he was still at home. He was so startled when I walked in, rushing to put his clothes on and overly chatty about how early I was. After a few minutes I told him I thought he was acting shifty and wanted to know what was going on. He said nothing, was all lovely and affectionate and left for work. He pops back in twice for different reasons, meaning he's now going to be very late for work - something which can't happen when I want a hand with the school run. I think he was hoping to get hold of the laptop to delete the search history, which I've checked and shows he was watching porn. Now is it just me or is that a really strange thing to do at that time of the morning?!

Aibu to be really hurt that I'm rushing around getting our 3 children to school plus looking after our ebf baby and he's sat at home, by himself, having a wank? Not to mention that I'm not very happy with my body at the moment but I'm still making an effort, we had sex two days ago. Plus the dishonesty, he knew I knew something was off, I asked him what was going on and he acted like I was being paranoid, which I'm not generally. Wwyd now?

[Followyourart]

I'm still in disbelief at it's the "expressions on their faces" that mean it's all entirely consenting and everyone's having a good time.. Yep if they're smiling it's fine!

[imwithspud]

Just rtft, phew!

Can't believe some porn sites have 'rape' categories to remove in the first place That's seriously messed up. I know most of them have 'teen' categories which despite the actors obviously being 18 or over I find repulsive in itself.

Definitely definitely agree that at the very least, access to porn needs to be addressed. I dread my dd's becoming teenagers and will do everything in my power to educate and keep them safe online (and in rl obviously). Hopefully by then porn won't be as easily accessible, one can hope.

Op I see your dh did the school run today, I presume this will become a more regular occurrence from now on.