To find it annoying if men try n do certain things for me, like open car doors or help with chairs

[LardLizard]

Ffs I can open the car door myself and seat down at a table without help

Bert
*Then Querty said something about a man opening a door for her and did that mean he was a patronizing arsehole? Everybody said no, of course it didn't. Querty then responds by saying something about "well according to the rules of feminism on this board he was"

Querty
I think I was more trying to play devils advocate

Thats not playing devils advocate.

Oh yeah I can imagine the feminist blame game is pretty standard. Even on mumsnet. But that's for the ill informed right?!

Everyone maybe read my original comment... Or on seconds thoughts stay out of it, you're not involved in mine and b discussion.

*everyonelsie

No and neither are you. It was devils advocate. I used a personal story to spark debate to see if the general consensus carried in the case of the old man. NOT that I have to defend myself against the likes of YOU.

So its ok for you to join the party and the thread stops there, for you.
Its OK for you to lie about what has been said on a thread.
Its OK for you to tell other people to shut up.
Its ok for you to misinterpret and misunderstand what has been said to prove some point or other.

No wonder you dont want equality, it would really cramp your style.

I never lied about anything. Who are you to make assumptions about me?

So what if I don't want equality, it's none of your bloody business.

I have been understanding and respectful and understood the REASONABLE, WELL SPOKEN feminist view on this thread. YOU on the other hand are doing feminism a disservice by being so judgemental.

But Elsie in all seriousness I'm really interested in a couple of things you said on another thread I'm following. Some things I never knew. And I would love to ask you to clarify some things as far as the law is concerned as I was unaware of things that you have made known. But I'm now scared of you just shouting me down. I haven't commented on that thread yet as it is quite heated atm.

And yet its feminists that play the blame game?

No I said it wasn't! I said that was for people who are ill informed? Why are u just being nasty misquoting me now?

My OH says men only hold doors for ladies so as to check out their arse - but that's probably just him

But I'm now scared of you just shouting me down.

Well that's ok then. It was nice talking to you anyway. And I will carry on checking out your stuff on the other threads.

To clarify I didn't want to ask about the other threads to start a row, you had mentioned a couple of things about the rule of rape not meaning pen is in v necessarily and sodomy and I just wanted to ask you about it.

No , I will only debate with HUMANS that are polite and reasonable.

... I think the phrase is is it not?