""I wouldn't wear a dress like that even if I had the figure. I suspect those who say they would are the type who claim getting your kit off is 'empowering'""
Your (and many others) attitude is the issue. You think Women can be put into 'types', based on how they like to dress, or look.
I like 'dressy up', 'showy' dresses. I like colour, I have been judged, more by Women, than Men, as Stupid (or lacking in Feminist knowledge) and a 'type'.
People, especially Women, are never that easily labelled.
When you are in AH position, not that she chooses her clothes, you wear Evening dresses, a lot and when your at your leanest, you might decide to not cover up, rather than show flesh, which makes the assumption that we should be covered.
I'm 48, I'd say to anyone that enjoys heels, drinking etc to make the most of it, because you might find by the time you reach 50, that your feet change and alcohol isn't your friend.