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To ask when you lost your virginity?

255 replies

TwentyCupsOfTea · 20/03/2016 23:31

The 'which song' thread has got me thinking... I was 15, how old were you?Grin

OP posts:
ForeverLivingMyArse · 21/03/2016 19:49

14 to a boyfriend, didn't last long (the 'relationship" or sex) but no regrets!

YoJesse · 21/03/2016 19:52
  1. He was in his twenties. It was lovely, he was really gentle.
MrsMook · 21/03/2016 19:53

20 with now DH. Smile

Crazycatladynumber2 · 21/03/2016 20:16

On my 18th birthday to a 28 year old who I had a two year relationship with. I was no way mature enough before then and I have good memories of it and don't regret it thankfully so I'm glad I waited.

Original poster
TwentyCupsOfTea · 21/03/2016 20:39

The stories from people who are still with their first timers are so sweet!

OP posts:
Sidalee7 · 21/03/2016 20:45

16

Getyercoat · 21/03/2016 20:47
  1. He was 28. It was amazing!
Natkingcole9 · 21/03/2016 20:48

16 and a half. With my now hubby to be.

Gileswithachainsaw · 21/03/2016 20:52
  1. ons didn't even know his name. found that out after Blush
Wheresmybippers · 21/03/2016 20:56

15 to steady boyfriend, no regrets Smile it was lovely actually.

JhurstB · 21/03/2016 21:06

17

mrssmith79 · 21/03/2016 21:09

13 (and 10 months) Blush

TaliZorahVasNormandy · 21/03/2016 21:14

22 with only ever boyfriend, now ex and DD's father. Infact, the only man I've slept with and I'm 32.

GherkinsOnToast · 21/03/2016 21:15

On my wedding night with DH nearly 26 years ago - I was 26! We had been together since we were 21.

Fink · 21/03/2016 21:22

Shock TaliZorah, are you actually me?! Except I'm 35, not 32. But every other details is identical.

Haudyerwheesht · 21/03/2016 21:23

19 with now dh ( am 34)

magratsflyawayhair · 21/03/2016 21:25
  1. A one time thing with my summer romance on my solo holiday treating before uni. He was of to China to TEFL so we were never going to see each other again

It was shit, but he was lovely and I don't regret it.

TaliZorahVasNormandy · 21/03/2016 21:26

Damn fink, that's close. But nice to know I'm not different Grin

PopcornFiend · 21/03/2016 21:36

18, with my boyfriend of 21. He was a lovely, safe, boring choice but exactly the right kind of guy to lose it to. Didn't particularly enjoy it, nor with subsequent partners to be honest.

Met my now DH at age 24 and he was the turning point, finally realised what good sex was! So obvs I married him :)

memyselfandaye · 21/03/2016 21:39

14, he was 16, in my parents bed, I thought I was such a badarse.

He died suddenly a couple of years ago aged 40.

elh1605 · 21/03/2016 21:46

34 to dh-was adamant from teenager I wasn't gonna sleeping with someone I didn't love or bow to peer pressure, and glad I didn't!

OpiesOldLady · 21/03/2016 21:48

The first consensual time i was 16.

Otherwise 4 and 14.

bettyberry · 21/03/2016 21:50

me 16.5 to a 19yo. Was pretty... meh. Like the magnolia of sex. Safe, expected but nothing to really memorable.

siblings were - 13yo (to an 11yo) , 13yo (to a 17yo) and 11yo (to an 11yo) Shock

MySordidCakeSecret · 21/03/2016 21:51

15

Judydreamsofhorses · 21/03/2016 21:51
  1. I did "everything but" for a good few years beforehand, but saved the real deal.
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