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To ask when you lost your virginity?

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TwentyCupsOfTea · 20/03/2016 23:31

The 'which song' thread has got me thinking... I was 15, how old were you?Grin

OP posts:
RhinestoneCowgirl · 21/03/2016 16:38

17, in a tent, on a school trip.

Ohdearohdearme · 21/03/2016 16:42

16 and 2 months, to my first boyfriend, on the last day of school - I had just finished my GCSEs and he his A-Levels. We'd been together 2 years and we thought we were in lurve. It was in a field at the back of my house and when I got home, my mum shouted at me because I had a cow pat on my coat! In the aftermath he was overcome with guilt because he was a hardcore Christian who was taught to believe that sex before marriage was wrong. We broke up shortly after that. At the time I wasn't even sure whether I'd actually lost my virginity because it lasted literally 5 seconds, although I suppose technically I had.

It wasn't until 3 years later when I was in my first year at university that I had sex that made the earth move and thought, "now, THIS is what the fuss is all about!"

cinnamonorange · 21/03/2016 16:44

29, to my (now) husband. Never fancied anyone until I met him.

Kim82 · 21/03/2016 16:45

I was 14 (3 weeks off turning 15) and he had just turned 15. No regrets at all.

5Hearts · 21/03/2016 16:46

16 - nearly 17 I think. I regret it a bit (I don't think about it at all so no big regrets) - no idea what he was even called now. I just decided that that day was the day. I wasn't allowed boyfriends at the time. It was all a bit sad really.

CPtart · 21/03/2016 16:46

20 to now DH.

BabyDubsEverywhere · 21/03/2016 16:47

12.... holiday romance, he was 15/16 I think though I looked older than him! IT was actually pretty good and I didn't really slow down until DH2! (convinced DH1 to have an open relationship) No regrets, its free and its fun!

themumfairy · 21/03/2016 16:49

17 to my dp. 10 years later and we're still together and I don't feel as if I've missed out just being with 1 partner.

BeetlebumShesAGun · 21/03/2016 16:50

15, he was 17. Have told this on here before but he went downstairs immediately after and dumped me by email. I didn't read the email until I got home the next day.

I can laugh about it now!

UptownFunk00 · 21/03/2016 16:56

17 - I regret it.

Wish my now DH was my first - we were first together when I was 18. I was DHs first though when he was 21.

I'm sorry to those who didn't lose their virginity voluntarily :(

munkisocks · 21/03/2016 17:16

22 to my now dh. Only ever boyfriend lol.

CleopatrasDaughter · 21/03/2016 17:18

15

supermariossister · 21/03/2016 17:31

14, then boyfriend who thought he was a stud, still speak to him and he still thinks a lot of himself. No regrets though, don't think it is that important the who where and why. Sd is almost 14 and when dp goes on about how young she is I do think back to what I got up to at fourteen and worry!

x2boys · 21/03/2016 17:38

I was 18 so was my then boyfriend we had been together about 6 months before and stayed together another year or so .

DontDeadOpenInside · 21/03/2016 17:44

I was 16, my now dh was 18, it was also his first time.

chrisrobin · 21/03/2016 17:49

20 to my now DH who was almost 20, it was both of our first times.

girlandboy · 21/03/2016 18:06

21

It was ok.

Never been overly impressed or keen on it. I could easily live without. In fact we don't do it that often, which is ok.

oliviaclottedcream · 21/03/2016 18:42

18, with Grace Jones 'slave to the rhythm' playing, in the back of his car. Lost knickers. Still cringing for the last 30 years.

Stanky · 21/03/2016 19:02

18 to 18 year old now DH. We are each other's one and only. :)

SupSlick · 21/03/2016 19:05

We were madly in love. And he got in touch a few weeks ago after ten years & now we're at it like more experienced rabbits once again Blush

Pebbles16 · 21/03/2016 19:14
  1. In fact we met 27 years ago today, been thinking about him. He was mostly lovely. DH was number 2. I always thought I was weird but glad to know that there are people who have the one and only.
TooAswellAlso · 21/03/2016 19:20

Two weeks before I turned 15

Eebahgum · 21/03/2016 19:36

Supslick that's so exciting!
I was 17, horrifically drunk and flung myself at a guy I worked with who I fancied the pants off. He barely spoke to me afterwards & I regretted it. Wish I'd had the self-confidence to wait until I met the right person.

MadameJosephine · 21/03/2016 19:48

16 years and 16 days. I had just finished my O levels (yes i am that old) and decided to celebrate. I'd had my eye on somebody for a while and decided the time was right so I went round to his house in my shortest skirt and highest heels, he didn't stand a chance Grin. He was 15 at the time.

15 years later after my divorce I bumped into him again and we had a bit of a fling, great confidence boost when I was feeling low, I'll always have very fond memories of him.

crusoe16 · 21/03/2016 19:49

18

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