Is this out of order to my friend? Difficult dilemma. WWYD?

[Headfulahorlix]

Made a good friend a few years ago. She lives on my street. DCs are friends and we do play dates and baby sit for each other and some times go out for weekends. She moved to this street after her unhappy relationship came to an end and she feels her ex is controlling which I have witnessed and so believe.

I put my house on the market. He has offered me the full asking price.

I am desperate to move.

Would you sell to him in my position?

No, and I would warn her too.

You are handling it correctly- not letting yourself be told how to feel. The husband sounds like a bullying arse.

I'd be considering mentioning the harassment laws to your "friend's" H if he carries on, frankly!!

There is NO reason why he should feel the need to continue with his harassment and coercion attempts. It's an abuse of its own kind, so he needs to be warned to cease and desist.

Please look into harassment laws, you shouldn't have to live like this x

I do wonder if your friends H is controlling or abusive to her. I certainly sounds like this selling is his idea, it is coming from him. His over involvement in her friendships is a red flag, my dh would have nothing to do with my friendships, he would not want to get involved, as any other regular non abusive man. I am not looking to let her off the hook, but your recent post about his behaviour seems very concerning.