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to be depressed that only 9% of women identify as feminists?

368 replies

parklyfe · 24/02/2016 12:11

www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/only-7-per-cent-of-britons-consider-themselves-feminists/

''When split out by gender, women were more likely to identify as feminist, with nine per cent using the label compared to four per cent of men.''

Sad
OP posts:
PaulAnkaTheDog · 24/02/2016 12:14

Probably because we are all scared off with the extreme feminists, who badger you about everything and make you feel like you're not feminist enough.

Donnadoon · 24/02/2016 12:15

I don't even get the meaning of the word [thick]

CooPie10 · 24/02/2016 12:16

Depressed? What for ? It's this attitude and all the Sad faces that puts me off.

BarbaraofSeville · 24/02/2016 12:16

I think a lot of people are feminists without realising it. No way are only 9% of women feminists, it's probably more like 70/80% or more.

After all, how many women think that they should be paid less, or not be able to vote, or otherwise be treated differently, simply because they are female?

MrsJayy · 24/02/2016 12:17

Well it's just the percentage that did the survey I'm a feminist I don't read the gaurdian or did a survey

parklyfe · 24/02/2016 12:18

Another quote I just noticed:

''But men were more supportive generally of equality between the sexes - 86 per cent wanted it for the women in their lives - compared to 74 per cent of women.''

More men than women want equality? Am I reading this right (sorry, english is not my first language) ?

OP posts:
PaulAnkaTheDog · 24/02/2016 12:18

CooPie that as well. The guilt tripping.

MrsJayy · 24/02/2016 12:19

Or the telegraph oops

Owllady · 24/02/2016 12:19

Some of us don't want to IDENTIFY as anything! I'm a feminist, a woman, a mother
But I don't identify as one thing
I'm sick of hearing about identifying as this and identifying as that. Some of us don't want to give it headspace
I'm owllady and I identify as an alien parasite

Owllady · 24/02/2016 12:20

Sorry I hit post

CooPie10 · 24/02/2016 12:22

YY owllady some of us are sick of this banging on about 'identifying' as a bloody feminist. I couldn't give a toss really, I have more significant things going on than trying to prove a done to death topic

MrsJayy · 24/02/2016 12:22

I agree with owl.lady I don't need to identify as anything I just am we are all expected to identify as something these days

CrossfireHurricane · 24/02/2016 12:22

Why the sad face?
It's only a small snap shot of women.
I don't get why we have to be card carrying right on spokesperson on feminism.
I am just quietly getting on with my life as a women interested in women's rights.
I have other things going on.

SevenOfNineTrue · 24/02/2016 12:23

Probably because we are all scared off with the extreme feminists, who badger you about everything and make you feel like you're not feminist enough.

This.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 24/02/2016 12:23

The word feminist has a lotof negativity about it, as said in the article. I think I'm a feminist but if you're not a ball breaking feminist on MN then its not good enough, it's too frothy and extreme. Its about the only topic Ive hidden.

Nogoodblood · 24/02/2016 12:24

The problem is primarily that there isn't a clear definition of what a feminist is. I don't describe myself as a feminist (I used to) for this reason.

NickNacks · 24/02/2016 12:25

Surely as a feminist op you would agree that the women surveyed are entitled to identify with whatever they like, whether that's the same as you or not. Smile

MrsJayy · 24/02/2016 12:25

Academic feminism is very different from day to day feminism imo

MrsGentlyBenevolent · 24/02/2016 12:25

Don't feel sad for us that don't label ourselves feminist, parklyfe. You can be a decent human being that supports equal rights without being labeled one you know.

limitedperiodonly · 24/02/2016 12:26

I have never been badgered by an extreme feminist. I once had someone ask me, quite aggressively, why I wore make up. I told her it was because I wanted to and didn't wish for further discussion. That was about 30 years ago.

At the same time I wore some extremely revealing outfits on nights out. Some women, and men, disapproved of them - though many of the men loved to hate them. That's their problem.

I don't think even half of them would have described themselves as feminists. They had other reasons for commenting negatively on my appearance and drawing unfounded conclusions from it.

Meanwhile, I was and continue to be, a feminist.

ComeonSummer1 · 24/02/2016 12:26

Yep find people associating with causes fucking boring.

I support equality for everyone.

Do people actually still read newspapers and believe that crap?

etttvatre · 24/02/2016 12:27

A feminist is someone who believes in equality between the genders. It's as easy as that.

ouryve · 24/02/2016 12:27

I'd love to see the particular question in that survey which led them to that conclusion.

Because, while I do identify as a feminist, if I had to choose one word out of many, then "feminist" would possibly not be the one.

Katenka · 24/02/2016 12:28

It really depends on the actual question and how it was phrased.

Osolea · 24/02/2016 12:28

Is that all?

I thought I was in a minority of women by refusing to identify as a feminist.