To think DH is being selfish

[KitchenNightmare99]

I am heading out tonight for a friends birthday DS is 1.5. DH works shifts and usually my nights out fall on nights he's working...on those nights my DM will keep DS. On his nights out obviously DS stays with me. Anyway tonight I am out and DH is keeping DS...he has planned for golf tomorrow morning at 8.30am and is staying after work
Tonight to go to the gym. I am meant to be out for 7 DH has said he'll not be home until
I have to go out. So I have to get ready, get DS his dinner and ready for bed while DH just swans in and DS will be sleeping for 7.30 AIBU to this he is being a selfish pr*ck

i think you have bigger problems than just that night out OP.
i'd have binned that prick long ago.

I think going to the gym for the second time that day, at short notice, with no agreement that your partner is happy to look after your child while you go, is being an arse.

People just love to come up with ridiculous reasons for a YABU so they can "go against the grain". Maybe they imagine it shows they are independent minded and fair.

Hope you had a good night op.
This did remind me of my exh, he developed this way of always making it difficult for me to go out without ever actually admitting it and unfortunately in the end I gave in and rarely went out as it became more trouble than it was worth now I have left it's clear to see but I genuinely never saw it when we were together.

Do people really go to the gym twice in one day? I have no idea as I have never been to a gym but genuinely interested.

correct yes, it's not that odd to go to the gym twice in a day, training on an already tired body has training benefits in itself.

Doing so when your partner is relying on you to be around is mean and I hope he dropped a dumbbell on his foot.

Hope you had a nice night x