I'm completely amazed about everyone who took the note so seriously and took massive offence and started making all sorts of assumptions and projection.
(Also it was OBVIOUS that she went into the pocket before putting the coat in the washing machine, like every mum does - though I am amazed about the fact that her teenager wears a coat too, but then he must be only 14, probably in his last year of agreeing to do so).
I think it's probably cultural differences, all this protestantism, a whiff of Cromwell on the thread. If I found a note like that, I'd retch and laugh at the same time, surely not make a big deal of it. I'm not English though, I'm actually going to ask my French, Portuguese and Spanish friends about their opinion of this incident, and I'm sure none of them would understand what all the hooha is about.
I once overheard my DS and DD discussing, how their (male) friends sometimes tell them 'your mum is hot', and my DD said she hates it so much(I was 20 when had DS, and 23 when had DD, so a young mum for my eldest). I totally get what she means, though when I was a teenager, I'd prefer that my peers thought my mum was hot that than the opposite...I mean, obviously I'd rather no-one alluded to sexual appeal of my parents at all!
Anyway, the note was stupid, the picture was eeww (in spite of having two DSs I've never come across a picture of a dick in our house!) However are all the high moralists on this thread who have teenage DSs going to police their sons thoughts and imagination? Do they think the word tits (and others? )would never enter their respectful sons' mind and mind's eye? Don't forget, he didn't actually write it for her! He actually might not care for her bosoms, and wrote whatever he thought would wind up her DS most!!
As someone else mentioned, I didn't notice at first because couldn't bear to look too close )), WHY does it say Dad next to the cock?