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I found this in my teenage boys coat today[blush]

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ruthie667 · 26/01/2016 23:50

Not sure whether to take this as a compliment and laugh it off ... or never let him have friends over again lol!!!

I found this in my teenage boys coat today[blush]
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Sweetdreamsforall · 27/01/2016 07:12

throwingshade Do you really think that person or her friend is on here reading it and thinking 'oh my Gosh that's my name - that's about me!' ??? You didn't think it was her, did you? There's worse stuff on the internet than this. There's probably a porn star with the same name on a milf website somewhere. Will her friends think that's her too? Shock

We all know what teenage boys can be like when they are discovering sex. It isn't shameful nor a secret. They will learn over the coming years how to treat women if they have good role models.

Coincidentally there is a famous porn star turned drug addict in Australia with my name who looks slightly similar to me. It's the first thing to pop up on google with my name.

I'm still waiting for somebody to ask me about that irl. Shock

yankeecandle4 · 27/01/2016 07:20

Sorry I couldn't read this properly, but obviously saw the picture. So one of your ds's friends complimented your bosoms and put the note in his pocket? If my son did this he would be punished quite severely. Very disrespectful.

I do like your tablecloth Smile

BertrandRussell · 27/01/2016 07:27

Oh, right. That's why it's funny.Hmm

AlwaysHopeful1 · 27/01/2016 07:29

I'm surprised people find this funny. Its disgusting really. 'Tits' do people think referring to a friend's mother in this way is ok. It sounds so rude and horrible.

theycallmemellojello · 27/01/2016 07:30

finding it funny and bolstering to their egos to behave in an inappropriate, objectifying manner to an adult female

see I find this chilling, not amusing, but I guess it takes all sorts to make a world...

Blueprintorange · 27/01/2016 07:30

Vile, and not something I'd be laughing at if I found.

Cantseetheforest · 27/01/2016 07:31

I would not be happy about this at all.

Happyrouter · 27/01/2016 07:31

The prevailing view on this thread that the note is funny and flattering depresses me.

Aramynta · 27/01/2016 07:31

ruthie report your other posts, then MNHQ might remove them and you won't be outed!

Happyrouter · 27/01/2016 07:32

Oh crossed post. I originally wrote the post before all the angry posts above mine in 😳

SanityClause · 27/01/2016 07:36

Congratulations, OP, you are officially a MILF! Hmm

(Yeah, I don't think it's funny or flattering, either.)

Vaginaaa · 27/01/2016 07:37

Oh yes, what a compliment Hmm

margaritasbythesea · 27/01/2016 07:43

I said it was funny their bubble had been burst by reality. Ffs.

Aramynta · 27/01/2016 07:50

I think it's quite amusing. I wouldn't be flattered by it, but I would certainly make DS and his friends squirm.

Then a more serious talk about respecting peoples mothers

ExConstance · 27/01/2016 07:52

As mother to two now post teenaged boys I can tell you they are prone to drawing huge cocks all over everything.

MalmseyWhine · 27/01/2016 07:55

Your teenage son wears a coat? Shock

JohnLuther · 27/01/2016 07:55

I spent most of my teenage years drawing cocks and jizz on things, I've turned out okay. I don't think that it's funny now but at the time it seemed it.

theycallmemellojello · 27/01/2016 07:56

I don't think anyone is objecting to the cock!

margaritasbythesea · 27/01/2016 08:22

I don't think anyone is finding the actual picture funny.

DawnOfTheDoggers · 27/01/2016 08:23

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3sugarsplease · 27/01/2016 08:39

Personally I don't think the boys intention was for OP to find the note, personally I feel it was more to 'banter' his friend. I think it's quite common of teenage boys etc to wind up one another about their mothers etc, and tbh it's become more popular with programmes like the invetweeners. I don't think it's vile or disgusting personally, if however the young lad actually said T this to the OP i think it would be a different situation all together.

Scuttles off to a different thread as I clearly have a different sense of humour

TooMuchOfEverything · 27/01/2016 08:44

My son and his friend were walking out of school the other day and his friend said 'hows yo momma'. They didn't realise I was there (I don't normally walk on the path they were on but was running an errand) so imagine their surprise as I put on my best Hyacinth Bucket loud voice and said 'I am very well thank you Simon, how is YOUR mum?'

Mwahahaha.

Peevedquitter · 27/01/2016 08:52

My DS has a note sneaked in to a letter home it just said I love you Mum and some kisses. It had the desired effect, I laughed and DS was horrified.

It is the total banter thing.

MadamCroquette · 27/01/2016 08:55

When I was a teenager, the boys used to craw jizzing cocks all the time. They were always drawing them all over the board before the teacher came in. In one lesson I was sitting behind a boy, he did nothing but draw jizzing cocks all over his jotter for the entire 2 hours :o

If I found this note I'd be wearily resigned and feminist-ly annoyed in equal measure. I'd probably like to find out who it was and make them squirm whenever I saw them with a scary "don't mess with me" look :o but I'd know it would have little impact.

A boyfriend I once had told me that when he was a teen he and his friends were bunking off school and sitting in a playing field smoking a joint. A grey-haired woman appeared in the distance. One of his mates yelled "Show us your tits grandma." Hmm As she drew nearer my ex realised it was his own mum (who was actually only in her 40s). He had to run for it and hide in a hedge.

MadamCroquette · 27/01/2016 08:55

craw? draw