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To not want to date this guy?

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Destinysdaughter · 16/01/2016 22:11

I had a blind date tonight with a guy who seemed really nice online and he turned up to the pub and he was in a wheelchair! He hadn't mentioned his disability before so I was a bit taken aback by it. He was nice but don't think I want to date someone in a wheelchair. Does that make me a v shallow person? He broke his back in a motorbike accident when he was 30, is 50 now. He was nice company but I do feel annoyed that he didn't mention this at all before we met. I feel bad about not wanting to meet him again, I'd be happy to see him again as a friend but as sex would be impossible, I don't see it being a relationship. What would you do?

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emptythelitterbox · 10/12/2022 08:14

This is why you don't spend ages chatting before meeting up. Definitely do zoom or FaceTime before meeting in person.

You don't have to date anyone for any reason.
He kept hidden something important. What else is he hiding?

harrassedmumto3 · 10/12/2022 08:16

YANBU.

RocketIceLollie · 10/12/2022 08:28

Online dating is the gift that just keeps on giving. Online dating is not the answer to a lonely heart.

Bonjovispyjamas · 10/12/2022 08:33

Zombie!!!

TheMaddHugger · 10/12/2022 09:10

Billbortch21 · 10/12/2022 06:56

This also happened to me. I often wonder if she was a nice person

Zoomin Zombies Batman👺

To not want to date this guy?
Billbortch21 · 10/12/2022 11:10

😂😂

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