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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Genuinely don't know who is being unreasonable here. (Puppy related).

214 replies

PinkPjamas · 28/12/2015 23:18

I'll try to keep this short.

A friend of a friend (FoF) is a backstreet breeder-being an animal lover I 100% disapprove.

One pup of the last litter was rejected by Mum.

I was advised about this in the middle of the night, pup was one week old, I went to emergency vet and purchased pup formula and rushed over with it.

Three days later, I was called by FoF, pup won't take formula, again, me being an animal lover-morals told me to go and help. I went to supermarket, purchased greek yogurt, syrup, a syringe, goats milk, stuff I knew is okay for pup to have, drove the 45 mins there to help, got pup to feed, came back.

BSB then tried to raise pup herself but couldn't cope with litter of pups, two other dogs, Mum etc. Pup fell and hurt herself few times and also had narrow misses with Mum who was still out to kill her. I took pup on myself. I live with a friend who I checked with if this was okay and if he was willing to be part of it as obviously he would be, living with us both. He doesn't work-I do so I had to ensure he could and was willing, to take care of her when I wasn't about.

He's also daft for animals, like me and agreed and has done the care when I've not been here.

Since then I've taken pup to vet twice, taken care of her, done night feeds, bought food and more formula you get the picture.
I realise, I didn't have to do any of this and it has all been my choice.

Now, my friend and I have a dog each, so we live together with our two dogs. Luckily both okay with pup.

Friend's said he doesn't want pup to go back to BSB, doesn't want her to end up in a potentially dodgy home, thus will happily keep her himself. However, BSB wants paying for pup.

BSB has now sold all other pups, and has said she'll give my friend a discount, meaning instead of paying £4-£600 , he can have pup for £200.

People aware of the situation have all said, pup would be dead without mine and his intervention, therefore BSB shouldn't charge him at all.

I honestly do not know. Some people have said haggle, others have said point blank pup should be given to him, as the situation means pup would have died if not for our intervention.

What do you think?

OP posts:
chubbymummy · 14/01/2016 19:33

Me please.

Melawen · 14/01/2016 19:41

If you're not too fed up of sending PMs I'd like one too please.

Such people really should be reported. They do not have the animals welfare as a priority.

nortonhouse · 14/01/2016 19:50

I too would appreciate a PM - have been following (lurking on) this thread and would love to help if possible

YouBastardSockBalls · 14/01/2016 19:51

Don't be too bothered about a PM, it's not that exciting. My advice to the OP from earlier in the thread still stands.

ilovesprouts · 14/01/2016 20:02

Cheeky bitch tell her to get lost I'd love to know how the story went ?? X

Millbram · 14/01/2016 20:03

Also been lurking- can I have an update please x

glenthebattleostrich · 14/01/2016 20:07

Please can I have an update too? Been lurking and hoping everything turns out for the best.

Roseformeplease · 14/01/2016 20:18

Me too please. And, well done for looking after the puppy so well.

RabbitsarenotHares · 14/01/2016 20:23

Could I get a pm please? Would love to know the outcome.

BahHumbug2015 · 14/01/2016 20:34

I'd live to see the update as well please

monkeyfacegrace · 14/01/2016 20:35

Damn it Im sucked in. PM please!

Allthatnonsense · 14/01/2016 20:38

This woman doesn't care a jot about the dog. I hope that you told her to whistle for it and then reported her to the rspca .

Violet88 · 14/01/2016 20:41

Please can I have an update too. I acquired my puppy in very similar circumstances to you almost 5 years ago now. She has behavioral difficulties with other dogs, and has required a lot of love time training and patience, but she has come on so well and has been worth all the work. I wouldn't change her for the world! I sincerely hope you have a good outcome.

BabyGanoush · 14/01/2016 20:48

Oh no, hope not bad news?

Hope dog ok and you ok?

What happened in the end?

juneybean · 14/01/2016 20:54

Oh no! Please can I have a PM?

Nimble2014 · 14/01/2016 21:10

Sorry, I've been lurking. Could I have a PM too please?

BrideOfWankenstein · 14/01/2016 21:20

Can I have an update please?

WyldChyld · 14/01/2016 21:21

Oh no! I've been following in hope. Please could I have a PM?

AnnoyedByAlfieBear · 14/01/2016 21:27

Can I have a pm too?

HackAttack · 14/01/2016 21:29

Could I have a pm too? Just read this and you did an amazing thing x

pebbles77 · 14/01/2016 21:35

Oh no, I would like a pm too please if possible?

AlistairSim · 14/01/2016 21:39

Could I have an update too, please?

StayWithMe · 14/01/2016 21:42

Please pm this lurker too. I have a wee rescue from an arsehole of a bsb. He was terrified of other dogs but I look after dogs and he's come on wonderfully.

Stratter5 · 14/01/2016 21:48

Another lurker, totally shocked at her cheek, and at what the 'trainer' told you.

If you get a chance, I'd love a PM, but I can see you're inundated. I can't offer any practical help, but I'd be able to give you a decent estimate of what you should be billing her, if that any use.

LouieLou2013 · 14/01/2016 21:59

Another lurker, pls can I have a PM