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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Genuinely don't know who is being unreasonable here. (Puppy related).

214 replies

PinkPjamas · 28/12/2015 23:18

I'll try to keep this short.

A friend of a friend (FoF) is a backstreet breeder-being an animal lover I 100% disapprove.

One pup of the last litter was rejected by Mum.

I was advised about this in the middle of the night, pup was one week old, I went to emergency vet and purchased pup formula and rushed over with it.

Three days later, I was called by FoF, pup won't take formula, again, me being an animal lover-morals told me to go and help. I went to supermarket, purchased greek yogurt, syrup, a syringe, goats milk, stuff I knew is okay for pup to have, drove the 45 mins there to help, got pup to feed, came back.

BSB then tried to raise pup herself but couldn't cope with litter of pups, two other dogs, Mum etc. Pup fell and hurt herself few times and also had narrow misses with Mum who was still out to kill her. I took pup on myself. I live with a friend who I checked with if this was okay and if he was willing to be part of it as obviously he would be, living with us both. He doesn't work-I do so I had to ensure he could and was willing, to take care of her when I wasn't about.

He's also daft for animals, like me and agreed and has done the care when I've not been here.

Since then I've taken pup to vet twice, taken care of her, done night feeds, bought food and more formula you get the picture.
I realise, I didn't have to do any of this and it has all been my choice.

Now, my friend and I have a dog each, so we live together with our two dogs. Luckily both okay with pup.

Friend's said he doesn't want pup to go back to BSB, doesn't want her to end up in a potentially dodgy home, thus will happily keep her himself. However, BSB wants paying for pup.

BSB has now sold all other pups, and has said she'll give my friend a discount, meaning instead of paying £4-£600 , he can have pup for £200.

People aware of the situation have all said, pup would be dead without mine and his intervention, therefore BSB shouldn't charge him at all.

I honestly do not know. Some people have said haggle, others have said point blank pup should be given to him, as the situation means pup would have died if not for our intervention.

What do you think?

OP posts:
ADishBestEatenCold · 14/01/2016 02:25

"I think I have pmd everyone who has asked."

Not me.

VirginiaWoofs · 14/01/2016 02:33

Can I have a pm? 😊

lazyarse123 · 14/01/2016 05:24

Can ihave an update please (don't know how to pm). Thanks.

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 14/01/2016 05:25

Me please

frankie001 · 14/01/2016 06:05

Can I have a pm please?

Hrafnkel · 14/01/2016 06:35

Could I have a pm please?

Choughed · 14/01/2016 06:44

I've been lurking, would love to know the end of the story.

Vajazzler · 14/01/2016 07:07

I've been following too with interest. Could I get a pm with an update please?

MigGril · 14/01/2016 07:08

I've been lurking to can I have an update to please.

PhoenixRises · 14/01/2016 07:10

Could I have a PM too please? Thanks

wanderingwondering · 14/01/2016 07:23

I would like an update please

YakTriangle · 14/01/2016 07:40

If anyone got a PM, could they forward it to me please? Thanks

toastyarmadillo · 14/01/2016 08:03

Pm please xxx

ProbablyMe · 14/01/2016 08:06

Also a lurker - could I have an update too please?

Habari · 14/01/2016 08:24

Another animal loving lurker here - please could I have an update?

Ilovefluffysheep · 14/01/2016 08:35

Could I get an update please?

YouMakeMyDreams · 14/01/2016 09:31

I never got one could someone forward it on please? Was thinking anything last night.

RakeMeHomeCountryToads · 14/01/2016 09:32

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Thingywotzit · 14/01/2016 09:45

Ooh, what a bloody cheek. Angry

If someone has a chance to pm me the update, I'd be grateful x

SouthWesterlyWinds · 14/01/2016 09:50

I did t get a PM also - could someone PM the PM? Many thanks!

mandi73 · 14/01/2016 10:00

Could I have an update please?

AtAt · 14/01/2016 10:02

May I have a pm update please? Hope puppy is ok....

kali110 · 14/01/2016 10:03

Oh no what happened????

gemdrop84 · 14/01/2016 10:05

Could I have a pm with update please? Doesn't sound good. Hate BSB's with a passion.

PassTheMead · 14/01/2016 11:29

could i please get an update if anyone has the time, this pup has been on my mind :( hate bsb, especially when so many dogs are in shelters :(