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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Genuinely don't know who is being unreasonable here. (Puppy related).

214 replies

PinkPjamas · 28/12/2015 23:18

I'll try to keep this short.

A friend of a friend (FoF) is a backstreet breeder-being an animal lover I 100% disapprove.

One pup of the last litter was rejected by Mum.

I was advised about this in the middle of the night, pup was one week old, I went to emergency vet and purchased pup formula and rushed over with it.

Three days later, I was called by FoF, pup won't take formula, again, me being an animal lover-morals told me to go and help. I went to supermarket, purchased greek yogurt, syrup, a syringe, goats milk, stuff I knew is okay for pup to have, drove the 45 mins there to help, got pup to feed, came back.

BSB then tried to raise pup herself but couldn't cope with litter of pups, two other dogs, Mum etc. Pup fell and hurt herself few times and also had narrow misses with Mum who was still out to kill her. I took pup on myself. I live with a friend who I checked with if this was okay and if he was willing to be part of it as obviously he would be, living with us both. He doesn't work-I do so I had to ensure he could and was willing, to take care of her when I wasn't about.

He's also daft for animals, like me and agreed and has done the care when I've not been here.

Since then I've taken pup to vet twice, taken care of her, done night feeds, bought food and more formula you get the picture.
I realise, I didn't have to do any of this and it has all been my choice.

Now, my friend and I have a dog each, so we live together with our two dogs. Luckily both okay with pup.

Friend's said he doesn't want pup to go back to BSB, doesn't want her to end up in a potentially dodgy home, thus will happily keep her himself. However, BSB wants paying for pup.

BSB has now sold all other pups, and has said she'll give my friend a discount, meaning instead of paying £4-£600 , he can have pup for £200.

People aware of the situation have all said, pup would be dead without mine and his intervention, therefore BSB shouldn't charge him at all.

I honestly do not know. Some people have said haggle, others have said point blank pup should be given to him, as the situation means pup would have died if not for our intervention.

What do you think?

OP posts:
Missrubyring · 13/01/2016 08:54

Could I have an update too please op.

NHSisfubar · 13/01/2016 08:59

Would also like an update thanks

BurningBright · 13/01/2016 09:04

Could I also have an update, please?

NeedSomePeaceAndQuite · 13/01/2016 09:07

I was hoping this would be a happy ending, would love an update of possible OP?

CaptainKit · 13/01/2016 09:07

Hope everything's ok. I wouldn't mind a pm if you're not already overwhelmed sending them out.

YouBastardSockBalls · 13/01/2016 09:15

Surely this is simple?

You send her an invoice for what you've spent, plus labour, and state that when she pays you'll give her the £200.

That'll be the last you'll hear of it.

What's happened?

Doodlekitty · 13/01/2016 09:23

I'd love to know what happened here if someone could pm me

anonacfr · 13/01/2016 09:33

Could I have a PM please?

wineoclockthanks · 13/01/2016 09:33

I'd love an update too if someone could PM me please

bendybootpumpkinpatch · 13/01/2016 09:35

I want to know please! !

Niceteeth · 13/01/2016 09:40

Been lurking following your story, would love an update please

KinkyAfro · 13/01/2016 09:55

As a fellow dog lover I'd like a PM as well please

IamTheWhoreofBabylon · 13/01/2016 10:23

I have been following and would love an update TIA

SistersOfPercy · 13/01/2016 10:42

Me too please. Been lurking for s while Grin

KinkyAfro · 13/01/2016 11:37

Anyone?

Daisypod · 13/01/2016 11:40

I think you have done a wonderful thing taking on this poor puppy. Could I have an update pm from someone please?

DontOpenDeadInside · 13/01/2016 11:49

me too please :) Hope pup is still in your excellent care.

diddl · 13/01/2016 15:02

Pretty please for a pm?

FisherQueen · 13/01/2016 15:22

OP I'm a behaviourist who's worked with Nicole Wilde so do let me know if you need any help. Also if you are in the UK (sorry missed it if you said where you were) and the bitch or dog she is breeding with has a high level of wolf then report her to the council and DEFRA. Wolf dogs are difficult pets at the best of times, in the UK and vted by a BSB it sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I would like an update as well if it isn't too much of a hassle.

bostonkremekrazy · 13/01/2016 22:06

another lurker hoping for a pm please

dinosaurkisses · 13/01/2016 22:19

Could I get an update as well please OP?

londonrach · 13/01/2016 22:22

Love update too. Hope you invoiced her op x

JessicaRuby · 13/01/2016 23:27

Would like an update too if you can keep up!

PinkPjamas · 13/01/2016 23:36

I think I have pmd everyone who has asked. If I haven't, feel free to pm me :)

OP posts:
Agrestic · 13/01/2016 23:39

Oh I need to know now too! Hope you're both okay.

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