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Genuinely don't know who is being unreasonable here. (Puppy related).

214 replies

PinkPjamas · 28/12/2015 23:18

I'll try to keep this short.

A friend of a friend (FoF) is a backstreet breeder-being an animal lover I 100% disapprove.

One pup of the last litter was rejected by Mum.

I was advised about this in the middle of the night, pup was one week old, I went to emergency vet and purchased pup formula and rushed over with it.

Three days later, I was called by FoF, pup won't take formula, again, me being an animal lover-morals told me to go and help. I went to supermarket, purchased greek yogurt, syrup, a syringe, goats milk, stuff I knew is okay for pup to have, drove the 45 mins there to help, got pup to feed, came back.

BSB then tried to raise pup herself but couldn't cope with litter of pups, two other dogs, Mum etc. Pup fell and hurt herself few times and also had narrow misses with Mum who was still out to kill her. I took pup on myself. I live with a friend who I checked with if this was okay and if he was willing to be part of it as obviously he would be, living with us both. He doesn't work-I do so I had to ensure he could and was willing, to take care of her when I wasn't about.

He's also daft for animals, like me and agreed and has done the care when I've not been here.

Since then I've taken pup to vet twice, taken care of her, done night feeds, bought food and more formula you get the picture.
I realise, I didn't have to do any of this and it has all been my choice.

Now, my friend and I have a dog each, so we live together with our two dogs. Luckily both okay with pup.

Friend's said he doesn't want pup to go back to BSB, doesn't want her to end up in a potentially dodgy home, thus will happily keep her himself. However, BSB wants paying for pup.

BSB has now sold all other pups, and has said she'll give my friend a discount, meaning instead of paying £4-£600 , he can have pup for £200.

People aware of the situation have all said, pup would be dead without mine and his intervention, therefore BSB shouldn't charge him at all.

I honestly do not know. Some people have said haggle, others have said point blank pup should be given to him, as the situation means pup would have died if not for our intervention.

What do you think?

OP posts:
Stormypud · 14/01/2016 11:46

Could I have an update too?

Jivetoes · 14/01/2016 11:53

Would love an update please X

HowSoJoe · 14/01/2016 12:11

Can I have an update too, if you don't mind?

DragonmotherKhaleesi · 14/01/2016 12:32

Been lurking on this, can I have an update please? Smile

LauraMipsum · 14/01/2016 12:50

Could I have an update too? x

cedricsneer · 14/01/2016 12:52

I'd love an update - been lurking.

jimblejambles · 14/01/2016 12:55

Just read this thread. Hope the puppy is ok.

29PaddingtonSt · 14/01/2016 13:15

Hope the pup is ok and the BSB has been reported. Would love an update please.

lostinmiddlemarch · 14/01/2016 13:17

I would also like to know what happened to that poor puppy please :)

5Foot5 · 14/01/2016 13:51

Another lurker who has become hooked and would love to have an update.

Themodernuriahheep · 14/01/2016 14:03

Yes please, hope you are ok..

Cheby · 14/01/2016 14:40

Another lurker requesting an update, if you'd be so kind.

descalina · 14/01/2016 14:58

also been lurking and would love an update!

TheAnswerIsYes · 14/01/2016 15:08

Could you PM me too please? I have been thinking about your puppy and would like to know what has happened with him.

Room101isWhereIUsedToLive · 14/01/2016 15:28

Didn't get one, may I have an update please?

Badlittlesis · 14/01/2016 15:36

Can I have a PM too please?

JoffreyBaratheon · 14/01/2016 15:36

I present her with an invoice for a similar amount, and say when she pays that - you'll pay her.

sadwidow28 · 14/01/2016 16:07

I followed the thread - please could I have an update from someone. Thank you.

mrsjskelton · 14/01/2016 16:31

The animals' welfare comes first. Get her reported and shut down. That pup would have been mauled without your intervention and I highly doubt that she would have been able to step in and protect it. AND if she's such a bloody expert, breeding dogs, why wasn't she able to take care of the outcast?
Anonymously report her for the good of the animals.

Birnamwood · 14/01/2016 17:58

I'vebeen following with interest, could I have a pm please?

PinkPjamas · 14/01/2016 18:01

I've just sent another bunch of pms and now I'm back at the thread will send some more :) again sorry to those I missed out , I had so many!Thanks for all the support with this :)

OP posts:
dillite · 14/01/2016 18:14

Please could I have a pm as well? I'm a nosy cow and need to know what happened.

CheerfulYank · 14/01/2016 18:19

I didn't get one so someone should fill me in!

GissASquizz · 14/01/2016 18:22

I haven't had one yet Smile

SparklyOnTheInside · 14/01/2016 18:27

Could I have an update? (Was lurking on the thread)

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