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To be upset....

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Phalenopsisgirl · 27/12/2015 10:36

Booked a 3D scan for today as thought this would be a lovely thing to do as a family (dh, ds and 2 dss) at Christmas and told older step children about it a few weeks ago. One showed no interest and said at the time he would probably have plans so I let it go there and then but other ( who lives with us full time ) said yes,great, he'd be there. This morning he has clearly forgotten and announces he has a guest coming round, I was not consulted directly but pointed out to dh that guest should be put off until later in the day as a previous commitment has been made but dh decides to take the easy route and just let it go. Left feeling really crushed, dh can't see why I am upset and can't understand that he should be showing his adult sons that if you have committed to something you should see it through, even if you have forgotten once reminded you should stick with first commitment. Note my parents would have loved to have come but I didn't invite as was treating it as a thing for just the 5 of us. AIBU?

OP posts:
derxa · 27/12/2015 19:14

This is the worst piece of shit I've ever read on MN. Well done OP You must be so proud.

Chippednailvarnish · 27/12/2015 19:16

I'm always intrigued by how well Keanu is aging, and he doesn't look like he's had surgery...

wannaBe · 27/12/2015 19:16

Yes, what is the obsession with rabbits? Although I've heard they're quite tasty. Grin

PrincessMouse · 27/12/2015 19:16

Gay? I hadn't heard that..

Expat Just read a little about the other film.

msgrinch · 27/12/2015 19:18

We know you were talking about you. You seem to love talking about you, thinking about you, crying when people don't please you.

wannaBe · 27/12/2015 19:18

Either that or he has a good plastic surgeon. Although I've always wondered, once you start down the surgery route, where does it end? After all, if your nose is e.g. Too big according to you and you have surgery to fix that, doesn't your face look all different?

Phalenopsisgirl · 27/12/2015 19:18

Lost in middle March that is the most constructive comment in an age. I'm assuming that you found it hard to grieve for your sibling without having a chance to hold the baby and find it to be a point of acceptance? I find this interesting and your childhood first hand experience of the possible worst case outcome is something that could actually be informative.

Unlike a lot of the nasty post that are simply out to be unpleasant and one sided

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Notimefortossers · 27/12/2015 19:18

she lacks the ability to handle the loss.

Well I'm amazed that you would be friends with someone so inferior to you OP.

My face is just literally doing this Shock the whole time. It's like a bad accident. I can't look away

Chippednailvarnish · 27/12/2015 19:19

I saw a picture of his Mum once and she looked inappropriately good. I'll see if I can find it...

Enjolrass · 27/12/2015 19:19

Oh do piss off 'she lacks the ability'

Wtf?

Notimefortossers · 27/12/2015 19:21

I'm loving this turning into a Keanu appreciation thread!

lastqueenofscotland · 27/12/2015 19:21

I'm presuming you have soooo much experience in losing a child and therefore know exactly how you'd cope... Fuck off

AliceInUnderpants · 27/12/2015 19:22

What a blatant troll you are OP

derxa · 27/12/2015 19:22

she lacks the ability to handle the loss. Oh Fuck Off

ghostspirit · 27/12/2015 19:22

i will ask bluntly... op do you think your children may feel presssured

AliceInUnderpants · 27/12/2015 19:23

I can't believe I actually gave you the benefit of the doubt and considered you may be having a mental health crisis of some sort. But no, you're just a cold, dead-hearted cunt.

fidel1ne · 27/12/2015 19:23

Isn't she Hawaiian?

ElsaAintAsColdAsMe · 27/12/2015 19:23

Lacks the ability????

What the fuck.

You're a fucking twat.

A heartless piece of crap.

I sincerely hope you never have to find out your obviously superior ability at handling the death of your child.

derxa · 27/12/2015 19:24

I love Keanu. He's a real person... I'm sorry for his loss

PrincessMouse · 27/12/2015 19:25

I have had an on, then off, then back on going crush on Keanu. Don't flame me but I think it's the leather trench coat. Grin I think I may watch Matrix tonight when DD is in bed. DH is really tired and I bet £5 his asleep before 8pm.

Also, has anyone experienced their toddler getting runny poos when their big molars came / are coming out? DD teething and her bottom is really sore.

Chippednailvarnish · 27/12/2015 19:26

Here she is...

To be upset....
msgrinch · 27/12/2015 19:26

Where are HQ? They need to get rid of this heartless cunt. I can't believe it has children.

PrincessMouse · 27/12/2015 19:26

How old is she?

shazzarooney99 · 27/12/2015 19:26

Phalenopsisgirl , you say to me yet more posion and nonsense? how ridicolous!

shazzarooney99 · 27/12/2015 19:27

Chippednailvarnish you should have had a photo of katie hopkins up there lol

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