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To think this is a disgusting thing to do??

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Dothetwist · 18/12/2015 19:00

My dd has been picked on in school on and off for the last year. She has been physically attacked a couple of times, each time i have been in to school they say the right thing but then it happens again

This year she is being singled out of a group, we know one of the parents through distant relatives we have a bad relationship with this has caused this particular mum to think she needs to bring dd into it.

In october dd was the only girl left out of a party..was told there was no room!
She gets left out of their group play dates, we brush it off and plan something for us to distract her

Well the bullying is getting bad, I've gone into school and got the relevant form to get her moved to another school and told them i will be writing to the governors and ofsted due to their inability to safeguard my daughter.

This particular mum is a queen bee type, always picking others up from the school for playdates and it the chair of the PTA. This afternoon this mum was in the classroom at pick up and rounded up the 9 other girls in dd's class as they are all going to her house for a christmas party.

Her dd then comes up to my dd with a bag of craft items and says... "here, my mum told me to give you this as you're not invited to my party" the mum then very loudly goes on about getting going.

Aibu to shove shit in this bag and put it through her letter box?

It seems so fucking spiteful Sad

OP posts:
LuluJakey1 · 21/12/2015 07:41

Actually I am not a Deputy Head since last Friday- I resigned so I could spend more time with DS. Smile

wonkylampshade · 21/12/2015 18:28

Lucky you! Enjoy!

EvaBING · 21/12/2015 18:44

Fatmomma - this happened on the school premises. Therefore, it is a school issue.

IceBeing · 21/12/2015 18:58

I think I would simply ask the bitchy mum what need of hers it was that was being fulfilled by being spiteful to a child.

But the school needs a poke in the right direction if they aren't handling bullying better than that too.

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