I must be the only one thinking wolfie got cornered by everyone. I know some men need telling it doesn't mean they're bad people, maybe they like to do the least possible or just clueless and need steering. I know my bil will do nothing unless my sister gives him clear instructions, and even then he may not do it to my sisters standards lol
my husband will try and squirm out of stuff like this, but if I disappeared and he saw me asleep he would automatically feed the kids and put them to bed. So my bil wouldn't. He wouldn't see the big deal in children going to bed a bit late, or eating late, unless his wife pointed it out to him.
You have every right to be angry OP I think I would have been because I know my husband is capable, but if your partner doesn't usually do it and is a bit clueless like my bil then try to overlook the lateness. It won't do the kids much harm, they were hungry so they will gobble down their food, and not mess around. They may be tired tomorrow but after that they will be right as rain.
Leave your partner clear instructions especially since you are expecting any day now and have pelvic pains. I had spd with all my kids I was literally limping and could go no further than a few yards down the road on foot without sitting down constantly. I was sleeping on the floor to reduce pain, so I know your burdens, of course I wont know "exactly" how you feel that's subjective. Do as little as possible I think you did too many tasks during the day, do whatever shopping necessary online I always do regardless of pregnancy, reduce your burdens. Take care of number 1 because I personally think no one will care about you more than yourself, not even a very loving husband or child. I am trying to be selfish try it yourself it'll do you a world of good. I wish you the best keep us posted on the new arrival!