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to think if you have a penis, you do not belong in a woman's prison

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RickRoll · 29/10/2015 19:15

There is to be an appeal tomorrow, at Bristol Crown Court, regarding the decision to send violent criminal Tara Hudson, who works as a transsexual prostitute (still has a penis, as 80% of transsexuals do), to male prison. Tara wants to go to a female prison.

AIBU to think that if you have a penis, you should go to male prison?

People are arguing that Tara is at risk of sexual assault, but Tara is not unique in this - lots of (non transgender) men are vulnerable, and the prison service has a responsibility to protect them.

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BertrandRussell · 29/10/2015 19:41

"I bet there are many female prisoners who would quite like a pregnancy to get them 'on in life' and to garner extra care and to possibly shorten their sentence"

Jesus! Shock

FatRun · 29/10/2015 19:41

YANBU, Tara should, IMO, go to a men's prison.

NewLife4Me · 29/10/2015 19:41

totally agree, if you have a penis you are a man.
You are free to behave and dress as you like but in the eye of the law you should be a man.

If you lack a penis you are a woman, who is equally free to dress and behave how you want to.
In the eye of the law you lack a penis so should be treated like a female.

End of.

Snossidge · 29/10/2015 19:42

How is the fact that she's a sex worker in any way relevant?

It's a tricky one, because she is at risk in a male prison. However, if she is male-bodied then I understand concern with her going to a female prison.

I think actually this case raises bigger questions - should she really be sent to prison? Would counselling/alcohol treatment be better? Are prisons fit for purpose if they can't keep inmates safe from physical or sexual assault?

MrsJayy · 29/10/2015 19:44

If there is a fully functioning penis then tara is a fully functioning man then should be in a male prison its obvious to me.

pinotblush · 29/10/2015 19:46

If this person wants to look like a woman but still sexually operates as a man then they should go to a male prison.

MrsJayy · 29/10/2015 19:46

Oh my good god mumontherun what are you even saying ?

Snossidge · 29/10/2015 19:47

Where are you getting the information about her being a sex worker from anyway? News reports say she is a make up artist.

RickRoll · 29/10/2015 19:51

Here is an example of why men do not belong in women's prisons:

www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/nsw/sex-change-killer-to-be-free-as-a-bird/story-e6freuzi-1225849057946

He manipulated his way into being sent to a women's prison, where he raped and sexually assaulted women.

Just as Tara Hudson is doing here, he pleaded a long history of gender dysphoria. None of which stopped his violent attacks on women

Another case here in the UK, where a male rapist manipulated his way into being sent to an all-female prison:

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/6138325/Transsexual-prisoner-wins-right-to-be-in-female-prison.html

Other violent sex attackers have attempted to manipulated their way into women's prisons, e.g., Synthia China Blast, who raped and murdered a 13-year-old girl, and got celebrities to endorse a move to a woman's prison

www.pinknews.co.uk/2014/08/28/us-laverne-cox-aplogises-for-reading-letter-by-a-trans-inmate-convicted-of-rape/

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MumOnTheRunAgain · 29/10/2015 19:54

Oh I can see the sensitive side of mumsnet can't tolerate the thought of women seeking out pregnancy whilst incarcerated ( welcome to the dark side of prison life, most prison officers will know about the bartering system and the general fucked up ness of being inside)

Gobbolinothewitchscat · 29/10/2015 19:56

Why can't she just go to a make prison and be out in solitary confinement? Confused

It's a 12 week sentence max not life inprisonment. I'm sure she'll survive

To be honest, I have very little sympathy with convicted criminals who have essentially inflicted these problems on themselves

RickRoll · 29/10/2015 19:56

"Where are you getting the information about her being a sex worker from anyway? News reports say she is a make up artist."

That's because the media are manipulative liars.

I read this report in the Daily Mail

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3291097/Transgender-woman-born-man-sent-male-prison-despite-fears-safety-following-assault-conviction.html

I googled the person's name ('Tara Hudson') and, to my surprise, couldn't find anything.

So i went back to the Daily Mail report, where I saw the images were credited to 'Instagram' and 'Twitter'.

With this clue, I found this twitter account:

twitter.com/tiaXstar

which links to profiles on sex worker sites.

E.g.

"Wow! I saw her Thursday. There was no evidence of her mind being elsewhere and she said she had plenty of clients lined up that day too!"

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attheendoftheday · 29/10/2015 19:58

I totally disagree, op. She is a woman, so she should go to a women's prison.

Having a penis is not how gender is defined, you know. I think she probably gets more say in what her gender is than an unrelated bigot on the internet.

saucony · 29/10/2015 19:59

Tara has a right to be safe but the women prisoners apparently do not. Transactivism logic.

Cerseirys · 29/10/2015 20:00

But what about the women in the prison? Why should they have to share a cell with a bepenised individual?

GinandJag · 29/10/2015 20:00

He still has XY chromosomes, so is a man. A boob job is cosmetic.

BojackHorseman · 29/10/2015 20:00

Yay a trans thread started by RickRoll Hmm

If she is sent to a male prison then I think that she should be isolated for her own safety.

attheendoftheday · 29/10/2015 20:00

Also, how is her being a sex worker relevant? Is it OK to accommodate sex workers in wrong gendered prisons?

MaudGonneMad · 29/10/2015 20:01

Having a penis is not how gender is defined, you know.

Correct, attheendoftheday. Having a penis is how sex is defined. Having a penis is a male characteristic. Males do not belong in female prisons.

MumOnTheRunAgain · 29/10/2015 20:02

So all men faced with going to court and getting convicted can now declare they ' are a woman' confidant in the knowledge that they can go to a women's prison?!

MrsJayy · 29/10/2015 20:03

Women dont get lesser sentences because they have babies so you think tara is just going to impregnate a few women so they can have babies to lesser their sentence and get on in life that is nuts.

GuiltyPleasure · 29/10/2015 20:03

Depending on what stage of transition she is in its likely that her penis is far from "fully functioning". The legal issue is that Tara doesn't have a gender recognition certificate & that is why legally she is still considered male. The prison where I work has had more than one transgendered inmate, we've had them pre & post op & it's likely that Tara will be accommodated in a single cell. Perhaps if she was so concerned for how vulnerable she would be in a prison environment she shouldn't have assaulted someone & as with all determinate sentences she'll only actually serve half of the 12 week sentence in custody.

BojackHorseman · 29/10/2015 20:03

It doesn't work like that MumOnTheRunAgain and you know it.

saucony · 29/10/2015 20:03

People with penises should not be incarcerated with people who do not, hence why we do not have mixed sex prisons. It has nothing to do with how people identify.

attheendoftheday · 29/10/2015 20:03

Why does her having a penis (while being a woman) put others at risk?

I am continually horrified by how acceptable anti-trans beliefs still are. How hard is it to accept that an individual is the best expert in what their gender is, and that this is not a choice?