To not take Dd anywhere 'posh' any more because of how she looks?

[JeffsanArsehole]

We have always gone on theatre/play trips and she's very keen but we usually combine it with a fancy afternoon tea/dinner somewhere really fancy.

I don't want to go with her any more because of how she looks. All in black, cheap corsets, giant goth platforms, plus 50 piercings including giant ear stretcher thingies etc.

Ive refused to criticise or say I don't like her 'style' as I'm a liberal and think she can choose her own self expression.

But at the same time I don't want to go to fancy places while she has such an 'out there' anti establishment style.

(Yes, I'm dreading the huge tattoos she's going for soon)

Yep mine never smell either.
Again, i have never been excluded from anywhere.
All the people who think we are mutilating ourselves, do you have your ears pierced? Or your nose or bellybutton? What's the different?
I've never actually felt so thankful to my mother before. I'll take her nagging and piss taking over my appearance gratefully now.
If my dp or friends said they didn't want to be seen with me because of how i look i'd tell them where to go.
Thankfully none of them would do that as they are actually real friends and my dp loves me for who i am.