To put dd 7m into nursery so I can go to the gym?

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I've just started putting her in for an hour two times a week. The first sessions were ok but today at her 4th session her face just crumpled when I said goodbye which wrenched my heart :(. She obviously realised I was leaving her. Am I mean putting her in just so I can go the gym. I just want to get fit and lose some weight finally. Will I damage her according to attachment parenting? Thanks.

Ha ha- you are making me laugh.

as I thought. It evidently doesn't take much.

bless.

I have no interest in your views on me. If you have decided that I fit some warped construct of your own making then that's your business, not mine.
Enjoy.

I find it odd that you chose to engage with me when had previously made it clear how I felt regarding your position.

perhaps your arrogance convinced you that you could either persuade or challenge me.

better luck next time eh?

don't feel too aggrieved sweetie. God loves a tryer

If god existed. Which it doesn't.

so you're either Dawkins (in which case i implore you to stop pandering to the intellectual vanity of the masses) or equally as arrogant.

seriously, I'm bored now.

I'd rather debate with somebody, anybody who wasn't so intent on proving me correct with no effort on my part.

Jings, i doubt my parenting all the time. Have guilt and worry that i might be fucking it up - totally winging it much of the time. I thought this was quite normal. Perfect, smug and totally sure of their parenting parents make me twitchy and I don't understand or trust them, much like i feel about politicians or dictators (suspect they all have a lot of personality traits in common).

Where are the fathers in this argument?

Where are the fathers in this argument

Right here - I posted earlier telling OP to go for it as it was a great idea. Still is.

It's like sock puppet city in here right now! Arghh bless