to be annoyed this woman asked my husband to zip her dress up?

[mynameisvivienne]

My friend had a house party last night for her birthday. She has a large kitchen so most of us were in there when a random woman asked my husband to zip her dress up as it was coming down at the back.

She was with friends and has never met my husband (or me) ever before.

Aibu to have been annoyed?

Just a bit of drunken flirting. I'd dismiss it as nowt be honest.

Be thankful she didn't ask him to unzip it

I would be slightly more perturbed if she asked him to unzip it

Was he the closest to her something?

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I actually laughed, sorry.

YABU OP.

What the heck were you annoyed about?

Maybe he unzipped it earlier?

Annoyed? What did you think she'd do next? Shag him over the kitchen table or something?

Do you always try to keep your husband on a tight leash or is that reserved only for parties?

Nah wouldn't be bothered.. If a woman wants to flirt with my partner then that's her perogative If he offered without her asking then that's his!

Maybe he unzipped it earlier?

Because cheating is always hilarious

Really?

Do you have trust issues?

I wouldn't bat an eyelid.

Was he the closest person to her?

If so, she needed another human to zip it up, i think you are hugely overthinking it in my opinion.

I'd imagine he just happened to be the person standing next to her at the time?

Hardly outrageous or anything...

Oh lighten up OP

Do you seriously think he might have unzipped it earlier?

If so, then I apologise.

I think I'd have to be pretty insecure in my relationship to be annoyed that a (presumably drunken) woman randomly asked my DH to help her with her dress. She probably just asked whoever was closest to her.

I can't take this seriously. I wouldn't have given it a second thought.

Ha. This would piss me off but I would probably consider I was being unreasonable and wouldn't say anything to anyone.

Quite random to ask a strange man to zip your dress up if you are standing with your friends...

Oh it's flirty though isn't it.

Was she displaying other outlandish behaviour OP?

Like talking to people?

It probably wouldn't bother me at all. Did she do it in a flirty way? Did he seem overly eager to get his mitts on her zip? Did she seem drunk/attention-seeky/generally a bit crap at judging social appropriateness?

Context is everything in a scenario such as this.

I guess I mean I cannot imagine ever doing that myself in those circumstances!

Errrrm.... YABU.

There's a lot of drama llamas on AIBU tonight isn't there!
Her zip came loose, she asked a person close to her to fasten it - total non-event
Now if she'd asked him to unzip her, bend her over and shag her up the arsehole I'd say you had a bit of a point

Flirty?

Really?

She had a zip problem. She asked a person to fix it.